I'm devastated

I'm so devastated I was just released by my dom, and although I know the reason why (it was my fault) I am finding it difficult to cope without him. He suddenly disappeared and I can't move on.
Any advice?

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Shade70 · 51-55, M

There's going to be an adjustment period the same as there would be in any relationship. Use it to assess what happened, to decide what you want and to orient yourself toward goals and plans that you have for life. Lean on friends and, above all, don't grab at the first thing that comes along and fall into the rebound trap. I've seen many bad relationships start that way.