why is it after 4 yrs on ep and recently being here not one person pm`s me.i answer and coment .

why is it that 4 yrs on ep and recently here now,i answer and comment often and yet not one person pm`s me.i would like to get to know ppl.others just come on and are rock stars.the pics could be fake so if i put a pic of a beauty on my profile would that help?