twistedrope · 26-30, M
A change in scenery might help. Or... People. In my experience, people don't tend to loop. They just sometimes get caught in bad compulsions brought about by complex thoughts.
It sucks that the person you loved really did hurt you. Personally, I've been a pretty crappy partner before and hurt lots of people. It took lots of difficult lessons to be a better person and to recognize those bad patterns my head gets into.
But I know enough and learned enough philosophy v.v to understand the truth about people. "Mans search for meaning" by Viktor frankl was a good place I started. Also getting a therapist who could give a good model to understand situations.
It sucks that the person you loved really did hurt you. Personally, I've been a pretty crappy partner before and hurt lots of people. It took lots of difficult lessons to be a better person and to recognize those bad patterns my head gets into.
But I know enough and learned enough philosophy v.v to understand the truth about people. "Mans search for meaning" by Viktor frankl was a good place I started. Also getting a therapist who could give a good model to understand situations.
in10RjFox · M
Reality is something that we need to accept and live with. It cannot be created for it happens. It is we who misunderstand an illusion as reality, and blame reality for it. So instead of trying to make reality happen the way we want it, it is better to accept it the way it happens.
In pros and cons, we play one part too.
In pros and cons, we play one part too.
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Great insight!
Pat yourself on the back for gaining that awareness.
Success is what happens when you learn from your failures.
Pat yourself on the back for gaining that awareness.
Success is what happens when you learn from your failures.
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
Reminds me of someone...
