We create our reality

I feel broken down. Another relationship didn’t work out. It’s the same patterns that I get myself into. Time and time again. Why can’t I learn this lesson. Why do I keep going back to a familiar surroundings. When the surroundings suck!! I’m so tired of this. I need to change. So that I want better for myself. I need to let go…even when it’s all I have.

I wrote the above a long time ago. And still I ended up in the same loop… fine. This time I will break down every structure that I have in my life and rebuild my human character. Just so I don’t end up in the same pattern.

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twistedrope · 26-30, M

A change in scenery might help. Or... People. In my experience, people don't tend to loop. They just sometimes get caught in bad compulsions brought about by complex thoughts.

It sucks that the person you loved really did hurt you. Personally, I've been a pretty crappy partner before and hurt lots of people. It took lots of difficult lessons to be a better person and to recognize those bad patterns my head gets into.

But I know enough and learned enough philosophy v.v to understand the truth about people. "Mans search for meaning" by Viktor frankl was a good place I started. Also getting a therapist who could give a good model to understand situations.

in10RjFox · M

Reality is something that we need to accept and live with. It cannot be created for it happens. It is we who misunderstand an illusion as reality, and blame reality for it. So instead of trying to make reality happen the way we want it, it is better to accept it the way it happens.

In pros and cons, we play one part too.

Heartlander · 80-89, M

Great insight!

Pat yourself on the back for gaining that awareness.

Success is what happens when you learn from your failures.

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

Reminds me of someone...

YoMomma · 41-45

Old habits die hard eh? Sigh

We return to what’s familiar to us.. it’s our comfort zone

Wiseacre · F

Because it’s familiar…uv got to create a new reality.

catastrophecarnival

Change it ...thought patterns can be changed

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