Any one here has divorced a narcissist ? [I Need Advice]

It’s been a difficult 22 years and then it turned into a nightmare when I finally left !
I finally realized that he classifies and a malignant narcissist
He doesn’t play by the rules
He steals
He cheats and he lies and the law doesn’t seem to know how to deal with him.
The Covid and the chaos has not been helping
I feel like I’m in war against the MOB!!!
Does anyone have any advice for me ?
I feel like I’m about to loose my mind .

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DunningKruger · 61-69, M

Retain your composure. Do not react to anything he says or does. Record every conversation. Do not believe anything he says without independent confirmation. Do not expect anything good or reasonable from him.

Arm yourself, if you already haven't. Get a gun if you don't already have one, learn how to use it if you don't and always keep it with you. Be ready to use it if you absolutely have no other choice. I know this one is extreme, but it sounds like you're in an extreme situation.

I wish you the best of luck, and hope you're able to extricate yourself from this person as soon as possible.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@DunningKruger
Thank you for your wise recommendations .

Unfortunately I had to learn the hard way that no recommendation can be extreme when it comes to protection from this type of personality .