Any one here has divorced a narcissist ? [I Need Advice]

It’s been a difficult 22 years and then it turned into a nightmare when I finally left !
I finally realized that he classifies and a malignant narcissist
He doesn’t play by the rules
He steals
He cheats and he lies and the law doesn’t seem to know how to deal with him.
The Covid and the chaos has not been helping
I feel like I’m in war against the MOB!!!
Does anyone have any advice for me ?
I feel like I’m about to loose my mind .

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4meAndyou · F

Yes. The second ex was exactly like that. If you are a normal person, you will not be equipped to deal with it, and neither was I. Make sure you live a good distance from him, do not allow him inside your house if that is possible, (children?). If you have children whom he takes for visits send them outside to his car...don't let him come in the house or apartment.

Make sure you don't actually speak to him. If he calls you, let it go to voice mail. If he texts, don't respond. Keep a record of everything.

But most of all, move on with your life. Find other interests. You have been stuck for a long time now, obsessing over the things he does...and that's what he wants.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@4meAndyou
Thank you 🤗
You had mentioned him before
No one deserves to go through this
I am doing all of that and trying to stay away
If only it were not for the kids ...

4meAndyou · F

@Niloo Just remember...kids go outside, to his car. He does not come in your house. Do not communicate with him via the children. Record all communications on your phone via text.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@4meAndyou
Yes
Thank you🤗
I’m trying my best to do so

DianaGyana · 31-35, F

@Niloo pretend he is dead, pretend you are reborn into a completely new life...