I Need Advice

Ok..so I was married for 15yrs and was only intimate with my husband. Never thought about getting tested for stud's. Now I am out in the dating world and decided to get tested so I would know for certain if I had anything and know that I did not pass anythpassion to someone. No I never had any out breaks of any kind while married. So I got tested and everything came back beg except for herpes 1(cold sores),I haven't had a cold sores in over 20yrs. I recently met someone I like and on the first date kissed him.
Should I have told him I tested positive for this before I kissed him?
I never really thought about it since I haven't had one since I was a kid.

I had a 2nd date with the same guy and while talking the subject came up. He was upset with me cause I didn't say anything on the first date.

So please advise...was I wrong for not dating anything?

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

I think you all are missing the entire point of this. And, let me say I am not here to throw stones at anyone. But, whether we are talking about cold sores, the common cold, or a skin rash... you don't just assume you (and your doctor) know what's best for everyone else you interact with (or have sex with). How about showing some decency, some limited extension of caring for others besides what YOU hope to get out of the date and besides what YOU hope for your children? How about just letting the other person know the whole truth and let him/her decide if she/he wants to take it further instead of making the decision for him/her. What's next, are you going to order dinner for the other person because you know what's best to eat? If the other person doesn't even factor into your consideration why not just date a real-life doll?