I Need Advice

Ok..so I was married for 15yrs and was only intimate with my husband. Never thought about getting tested for stud's. Now I am out in the dating world and decided to get tested so I would know for certain if I had anything and know that I did not pass anythpassion to someone. No I never had any out breaks of any kind while married. So I got tested and everything came back beg except for herpes 1(cold sores),I haven't had a cold sores in over 20yrs. I recently met someone I like and on the first date kissed him.
Should I have told him I tested positive for this before I kissed him?
I never really thought about it since I haven't had one since I was a kid.

I had a 2nd date with the same guy and while talking the subject came up. He was upset with me cause I didn't say anything on the first date.

So please advise...was I wrong for not dating anything?

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

Why do you feel the need to deflect the issue of your cavalier attitude by assuming I have been treated as disposable. This isn't a case of me projecting my dating life on your bad behavior. Saying, "I wasn't even sure if I wanted to see him again" sure as hell makes it sound like you never thought of him as much more than a disposable entity. And, telling him after the fact, suggests you KNEW it was wrong to hide the truth from him from the start. But, you decided you wanted to see what was in this, if anything, for yourself before you gave him all the facts? Isn't that an accurate interpretation of what went down the moment you agreed to go out with him and withhold "certain" information?