The more I became stoic,the more I became asexual

For the start I really feel that I'm asexual starting in my adolescence but it grew more when the time goes by and recently I became follower of "stoicism" philosophy, then I feel more and more asexual since in the past I've been able to crush/s to a girl or opposite sex (I'm male btw) and now I'm losing it the instinct to like or will to find a mate, I'm scared I don't want to lose my humanity

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Dolimyte · 41-45, M

Sexuality is only part of being human. You are not losing your humanity. Being asexual is perfectly valid, don't worry.

Peterthestoic · 16-17, M

@Dolimyte thank you

SW-User

I'm asexual too. if you feel like the whole stoicism thing is somehow ruining your humanity because it's making you more asexual... maybe it's time to look for a new philosophy

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SW-User

@Peterthestoic I got no idea man. I've never really had an issue with finding people to date personally. before I realised I was asexual I had had girlfriends before. so I don't know if that's true.

SW-User

@Peterthestoic maybe it's an emotional thing. you need some sort of connection with the other person first before you're able to think about dating.

Peterthestoic · 16-17, M

@SW-User yeah I feel that too since I don't really find beautiful women interesting (in sexual way) and I also think that spending your resources and time for just limited time of pleasure is a unproductive.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

There is no such thing as asexual

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Peterthestoic · 16-17, M

Sorry I accidentally deleted your comment and I'm thankful to your comment.

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SW-User

@Morrowind you realise you're telling an underage kid to date older people right...?

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