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I used the cane and I now wonder if I was right to do so.

I was a teacher from the late 1960s until the late 1980s - a fairly short career as these things go although I was quite successful - spent my last few years as a Head Teacher.

Part of my job was to use corporal punishment. I believed then that I was doing this in the best interests of the children I taught and I'd like to continue to believe that. But I find myself in a world now where we're constantly being told this was bad for children and that worries me immensely. I just can't reconcile it with what I saw as a teacher. I saw it work. I saw it turn children around. I saw it help children. I really do think that's true. But I take psychological and pedagogical research seriously and I can't reconcile it with what I saw myself.

I am honestly horrified at the idea I might have harmed these children.
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GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
It was just a different time. People were different then. What worked before might not work now because of how our society changed our beliefs over time. After living along time you see the way we conduct ourselves dramatically change when they younger generation cant because they only know whats current. You believe you did good by people and you saw it in them. Let go and focus on whats currently in your life.