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Lines I get (and I'm sure several women get) in DMs, that you wonder...

How a guy would feel about them as a first message?
Do you think most men would like these from a woman as a first message, or would feel awkward?

"Are you kinky?"

😮😶🤔


"Do you like sharing naughty pics?"
🤦‍♀😑🤨

And...

"I really feel connected to you. We could be friends or more. What turns you on baby?"
😣🫪😒
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sarabee1995 · 31-35, F
On SW?? Lol, I think most guys here would love to get those messages in their inbox.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@sarabee1995
sarabee1995 · 31-35, F
@Degbeme Your not most guys here, Degs. 😉
romell · 51-55, M
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Are you kinky is a fun opener!! Lol
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@Muthafukajones If you're seeking a casual relationship or hook up , probably yes lol
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
@Baybreeze Women steer conversations to sex just as often as men!
sp1dwoOfe221 · 36-40, M
suck fuck cook & clean baby dykwim
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
romell · 51-55, M
@JimboSaturn you say that lol
Finchy · 41-45, T
I get messages like that. I respond nicely but they better bring it better than that if they want to keep talking lol
pdockal · 56-60, M
Hmmmmm
Guys are guys
I try to base my interactions on their posts/ replies & groups
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I don't know if men would like that kind of thing, I think it's sort of a fantasy of theirs ...some of them, anyway.
But that doesn't matter you don't like it- most women don't like it and they really need to get a clue that this is not the way to approach a woman.
I don't fool around with none of this crap at all so, I rarely get these kind of messages-
I will ignore, block , and if it's egregious enough I will report them.
I used to get way more on EP.
I've heard it said that these men will push it as far as you let them- I won't let them.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@Justmeraeagain I think men and people in general feel that online they can forget societal norms and good behaviour because they don't feel online people as real.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@JimboSaturn I suppose some people don't act "real",either.
I'm not into any of that kind of stuff, and I'm not sure it's healthy, but if it's going to be something people pursue they need to be sure of their audience .
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@Justmeraeagain Agreed. Men just need to do better. Myself included.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
I know many men who would love such messages. However, there are some very important differences that come into play.

Namely, that many men don't get approached by women or have women take the initiative in showing interest in such a clear way. If this was something they had to deal with frequently it would probably get old. But for most of us, getting this kind of attention would be a dream.

Myself, I do prefer a bit more substance. But also, if I had someone messaging me like that I would assume they were going to try to pull a scam to get money out of me.
GoFish ·
Yeah i don't reply to those guys or most DMs cause they turn creepy fast
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@GoFish Yup ..if they don't begin with something from above, they'll act nice first , normal conversation, and about twenty minutes in, bam...switch to "so what turns you on?"

😶😩
GoFish ·
@Baybreeze or worse.. i cant complain tho i sent some really strange ones myself in the past lol
TransientTinkerer · 41-45, M
If I got one of those messages, I’d assume it was another guy posing as a woman.
val70 · 56-60
Nah, you haven't lived long enough... old geezers are the worse :)
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@val70 Tell my body that. 😩
val70 · 56-60
@Degbeme I'm talking to your brain now. You betray yourself easily
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@val70 My brain is all ears... well on the side. ;)
WormMan · 56-60, M
I have received 1st messages from "women" similar to that, usually those conversation lead nowhere.
Gibbon · 70-79, M
At least I could laugh if I got those.
I just get the... seemingly underage catfish
Message like this.

Hi
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@Gibbon oh it's a classic!
Gibbon · 70-79, M
@Baybreeze I know people never read them and mine is very long. This is the last sentence in the about me in my profile.

and I don't respond to catfish or DMs that just say Hi. If you want to talk say something about yourself or don't ring the bell.

Maybe I should put that as my message greeting.
Gibbon · 70-79, M
@Baybreeze oh, I forgot. I already have a perfect message. Don't you agree? This is what first timer is coming my way see. If they don't pay attention to this, it's because they just don't read.

Yeah if I don't know you popping in out of nowhere saying just hi or hello will get you ignored. And if your profile is new and empty it will get you blocked.
BrandNewMan · 61-69, M

Some people just weren't raised right. And it shows.

🤭🙄
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
If you can place the phrase "Previously...on Criminal Minds..." before the statement, it's probably not a good line.
Lilnonames · F
i dont get them,read my intro
youngman1958 · 61-69, M
They all sound as if they were written by desperate men pretending to be women in an attempt to get someone with a uterus to talk to them. It also sounds like most of them have never actually spoken with a female before.

 
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