If you do NOT question your worth in love/dating..
What is your general mind frame... In what ways do you feel, 'Ok I'm a good, worthy person. '🌸🤔
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
This is dependent on your life philosophy.
Unfortunately many take the aristocratic point of view. They are better than others and therefore entitled because the majority are subservient, who look at themselves lacking in whatever qualities.
This is the what I consider the caveman approach. If you don't dominate, then you're submissive.
They they don't even know they are doing this. They considered the domination as being confidence or submissive as lack of confidence.
The approach I use is through perspectives. No one has the upper hand, because everyone is different.
Everyone is on the same level of the playing field. When you take this approach worth is meaningless because everyone is worthy.
There are other approaches. However. Some more similar to mine other approaches closer to the majority point of view.
Unfortunately many take the aristocratic point of view. They are better than others and therefore entitled because the majority are subservient, who look at themselves lacking in whatever qualities.
This is the what I consider the caveman approach. If you don't dominate, then you're submissive.
They they don't even know they are doing this. They considered the domination as being confidence or submissive as lack of confidence.
The approach I use is through perspectives. No one has the upper hand, because everyone is different.
Everyone is on the same level of the playing field. When you take this approach worth is meaningless because everyone is worthy.
There are other approaches. However. Some more similar to mine other approaches closer to the majority point of view.
Colonelmustardseed · 36-40
Penny · 46-50, F
everyone is worthy of and deserves love. even if that love is in the form of negative feedback or punishment. justthinking about using the term "everyone"lol. but basically, i deserve and am worthy of love because i exist and God put me here. I try to be a good person. I think thats all that really matters. You know, treat others how youd want to be treated and stuff liek that.
eta- even in the case of bad behavior, something made them act that way and i liek to intrinsically think everyone starts out innocent and good though i may be naive in thinking that. so even bad people deserve love. everyone deserves love and is worthy of receiving love.
eta- even in the case of bad behavior, something made them act that way and i liek to intrinsically think everyone starts out innocent and good though i may be naive in thinking that. so even bad people deserve love. everyone deserves love and is worthy of receiving love.
rinkydinkydoink · M
