is it true or not?

Hopefully when you get better and love yourself you won’t want him back because you’ll finally realize that you deserve better!

Ugh, based on your other posts, if you move on stay moved on, maybe he comes back, maybe he doesn't, but time to focus on you and not him. If he comes back after you have transformed but cannot be there with you now he is not worth it.

Sounds like you are trying to do the I will change, love myself and be better and then he will come back. Doesn't work out well that way, and by that point, if you have truly changed and do love yourself you will see you are short changing yourself with this guy.

Ex's are ex's for a reason and should always stay ex's forever more. Regardless of how attractive physically my ex is she is a very toxic narcissistic pom-pom pedestal princess who destroyed all trust I had in her so I will never take her back or want to go back to her.

When you move on and learn to love yourself hopefully you'll realize your worth and not be so hung up on your ex.

I don't want him back. He called me after a month and asked if I was ready t come back. I was looking e apartments and immediately told him so. I don't see any point in dragging anything back and forth.

not true

and they are an ex for a reason

only went back once - and it didn't go well

He is not "the one", kiddo. :(

You need to stop looking at the past and stop acting if he's the only man out there. There are good reasons why you're not in this relationship any longer. Go out and find someone who deserves you.

Move on because you want to experience another chapter. Not because you’re hoping he will come back one thing I’ve learned over the years, once An ex is an ex, they are best staying an ex.

It is true but exes only come back after you've really moved on - it's not something you can reverse psychology the universe into granting

Come back depends where he is gone why he is gone
Can't be a really simple answer to it right

Tear off the rear view mirror and look forward not back

Why would you want that ?

If you do all that just to get them back then you aren't doing all that.

But then you'll be able to tell them to get lost and find someone better.