Did anyone here experience this?

I will keep moving forward. I have no interest in looking back at the person who hurt me badly.

Trust me, I fell for this trap myself. Always remember and repeat these questions back to yourself.

How many times did they say they were going to change before?

Did it get better or worse?

Why did you leave in for in the first place?

Do you feel like your in better place without them?

Do your kids fell safe? (If you have any)

Been there, done this and fell for more then once with one then one ex. You got to be strong and true to yourself.

We broke up for a reason so there is no going back unless you want to reopen old wounds and rehash the past. I just let the toxicity go

Not me. My wife said an ex was always an ex, and she just told them to go find somebody new.

My first husband who I divorced back in 96 told me that after being remarried just 3 months and I was witness at his wedding. He carried on dropping it in to conversation every time we happened to meet at an occasion over our children. My son even told him to cut it out once.
I kind of felt vindicated after everything he had abusively chucked at me in our 15 yr marriage but I knew he had learnt nothing. He was still making the same mistakes. Yet a part of me knew I would always have love for him being my first love and father to our kids, but he was an ex for a reason and that hadn’t changed.

Dont go back he is ur ex for a reason

It's over... I don't look back.

Part of you was hoping your ex would say that one day. You're not ready for a new relationship if you're still having that kind of conversation with your ex.
Don't go. It's a booty call. He doesn't want to get back together, he's lonely for now.

To me it's a deploy. In hopes to keep you from finding someone else. Or a way to possibly keep u around their fingers/ close to them. But that's just me

Easy. You just move on. That person is an ex for a reason. And why give any concern to someone who "hurt you badly?" There's no upside.

That's a reason they're an ex, and that "I want you back BS" is exactly that.. People rarely change... Especially in short time periods

That would be a hypothetical for me, but I'd stick with the new person. The ex is an ex for a reason and I won't let her hurt me again.

Cut off all communication with your ex. There was a GOOD reason they are now your ex.

This always seems to happen in some form but I don’t play that game

🤔..........Keeping moving on and looking into the future. Don't look back.........

Totally depends how he was wd u.maybe jealous from ur new relationship, ad wana heart u bk

I sure did, but she wasn't going to take I've moved on for an answer until I sought a restraining order

That's their problem, not your. Move on.