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Why is it often perceived as more challenging for a man to navigate life without a female companion compared to a woman living without a male partner?

Does this perception accurately reflect reality, or are there men (excluding homosexuals) who manage their daily lives without a strong longing for female companionship?
iamnikki · 31-35, F
I would have thought it was the other way around.
Nobody bothers men about when he's going to settle down and have kids because his biological clock is ticking.

People don't give men a hard time if he has kids, because he (usually) won't be the one "stuck" with the kids when things don't work out.

Nobody tells a man he shouldn't live alone for his safety and "what If something happens to you".

I could go on and on but I'll stop there
Justice4All · 36-40, M
@iamnikki Sounds like you're talking from experience. Children are a beautiful thing, really. But in this day and age, if someone isn't ready to have kids or doesn't want to, they shouldn't be forced.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@Justice4All um yea, it is [i]my[/i] experience. That's why I answered.
And I do not have kids
Coralmist · 41-45, F
Hmmm I 've kind of viewed it the opposite way. That women need a man to 'sweep her off her feet' so to say. To provide stablilty, protection etc. You always see these romantic comedies with the single woman who is maybe rocking it in her career, but is sad and lonely in her personal life. Just waiting to be a bride someday, or engaged etc. I am sure though men do feel an inner need to find a woman's companionship as well... although sometimes it is portrayed through media, movies etc. men LIKE their alone time very much or being single in general. I guess it comes down to the individual really.
pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M
Reality is that Women can do things that men can NOT do.. Same is so for men.. Together they accomplish more than they could separately.. the need and the benefit is mutual. What one is missing the other has. The combination can be formidable, the we can be far more impressive than the me...
eventtemple123 · 22-25, M
Probably because they had a mom who did everything for them. I know this because I had a neglectful mother who taught me that I can't rely on women for anything. I have unfortunately heard guys talking about how they don't need to learn to cook or clean because there's always a woman who wants to do it for them, but to me, the concept of a woman wanting to do ANYTHING for me seems as alien as having laser eyes.
Justice4All · 36-40, M
@eventtemple123 That's logical way to look at it. Those traditional roles really don't serve a purpose. A man should know how to cook and clean. But to your point, yes, it stems from their upbringing... Mama does everything for them. They don't even know how to wash their own clothes, some of them.
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
@eventtemple123 @Justice4All [quote]Those traditional roles really don't serve a purpose[/quote]
[quote] it stems from their upbringing.[/quote]

And it goes for both genders. My youngest son said he found the best way to connect with women in college was going to the laundry room. So many of the women were clueless about separating clothes, spot cleaning, minor repairs, etc. His mother taught him well. (She, otoh, would never let me touch the laundry or the checkbook.)

Both of my sons are the primary cooks in their households. Again, their mother not only taught them how to cook, but to enjoy cooking. They and their wives divide household responsibilities along the lines of their strengths and preferences rather than traditional gender roles. And my grandkids have been taught to be self-sufficient and independent, capable of doing everything and not just what gender would have formerly dictated.
Ugg. We don’t need help 👊
msros · F
That is right. Maybe women are emotionally stronger to handle being alone after the death of their husband.
Justice4All · 36-40, M
@msros I don't know. I see a lot of older men who just want sex. I don't understand that either. They're in their 60s and 70s and they're not looking for a wife. Just a fling
Really · 80-89, M
People often perceive things this way or that way because that's what people do.
LifeIsShort · 31-35, M
I have never heard anyone saying that.
It honestly depends on the people.
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Justice4All · 36-40, M
@Ceci13 stop projecting

 
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