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Do you enjoy being checked out occasionally

...but ALSO feel so self conscious at the same time???

An attractive guy was looking at me twice as I walked nearby today. Even though at FIRST i enjoyed it I felt so awkward as I got closer.😩 I really hate it. If he had ever talked to me I would've for a minute too..but if they show MORE interest I will clam up and I don't feel I am enough. I wish life were not this difficult when it came to love or attraction 😟
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Ducky · 31-35, F
I don’t mind men shooting glances at me. That makes me feel good about myself, empowered. And it shows some class on their part because they’re not just gawking at me. But when they’re full-on staring, that’s when it makes me uncomfortable. If they’re gonna be looking at me for that long, they better take the time to come to talk to me, which makes it less creepy because then it shows they had more of a genuine interest and were confident to go from staring to actually starting a conversation with me. When all they’re doing is staring, however, that’s just creepy, rude and unattractive as hell.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Ducky This!!
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JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@Ducky

What if he is married?

Oh wait, right, he shouldn't be surveying new pastures!

🐑
Ducky · 31-35, F
@JoyfulSilence No idea what you’re on about, but whatever
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@Ducky

If a non-single man is looking at your appearance with lust in his heart, then he knows he should not try to hook up with you. He can look, but can't touch.
Ducky · 31-35, F
@JoyfulSilence Okay? 🤷‍♀️
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M