Are women just as confused as us?

Do they understand as little about men as we do about them?
I cant tell the difference between flirting and just being nice.
I dont know what offends them and what they find funny.
And i certainly don't know how to approach them and appear legitimately genuine

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Coralmist · 41-45, F

I am intimidated by men especially those I find attractive. It has been a real issue and I am tired of feeling this way. I do go to therapy and we are working on it but it is not overnight ughh. I just want to feel I can be me with a guy and not feel Im not enough. I do think we both..women and men..just want to be our authentic selves and that somehow that could be enough. (To share and bond together)

Gringo · 46-50, M

@Coralmist it is good when you finally find someone you can be authentic with. Liberating in a sense. Hope that happens for you.

JestAJester · 31-35, M

@Coralmist confidence definitely makes you more attractive but a healthy amount of humility is too. I do feel like im good enough just cant understand why the demand is so low

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

I personally find women and men to be just people. Women aren't a mystery to me but some people can be.

Flenflyys · 31-35, F

I also don’t understand men and see a lot of differences between the sexes. As for what we find funny or interesting though, that varies from person to person and also between whom we are joking. What I might laugh about with one man I wouldn’t even discuss with another.