I go to church I love it! however if you don't want to go to a certain church, just don't go back. I agree with rckt. I got saved/born again at 18. loved the church until some really bad people started attending, I began to stress when it was church time, My wife and I even would just sit in the car outside the church and say, I don't want to do in we will feel worse when we come out! we finally left that church which was so leagallistic and judemental. however I knew God had did a great work in me and I didn't want to give up on Him, so we found a church where the people loved us as we are. I have been told so many times, I'm a nut job, crazy, need a cruch, brainwashed, liming, stupid, deceived, idiot. but the fact remains that God is Alive and he loves us. God is not religion, I have a born again experience that is real. Sorry the people are not kind at your church. hugs.