For anyone who had a stable, calm home growing up...

..How did that calm or loving environment shape or help you now as an adult?

I'm trying to do a new activity of REPARENTING yourself, and it's very hard to imagine life with love, support or safety.

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AbsolutelyFabulous · F

People didn't have that... It's about time we all woke up and realised as much..

We're born with trauma for starters..

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@AbsolutelyFabulous I know several people here have said they had a loving, stable home. But I have to keep reiterate to myself it's true, Bec it seems so untrue.

AbsolutelyFabulous · F

@Baybreeze we're born with the trauma from our ancestors and it's our job here to heal, learn, improve, etc, so that we don't pass down the pain..