In a relationship - do you guide, or are you guided?

We got married.

A bit of both. It goes both ways. I never denied them anything. No need for scrapin.

It's a combination deal for me. Neither choice suites me.

I think it should be a lil bit of both no?
But I’ love that my partner seems to be more assertive than me.

Both. That's how relationships work.

I have been hanging out with my new roommate for about 2 years but she moved in 3 weeks ago. I let her do what she wants. I want her to be happy and comfortable here. Even the new Christmas towels in the kitchen....

Where we have dinner or what we watch on TV (or don't watch) or other such things doesn't much matter to me. In such things I am biddable.

In things that do matter to me, I am less so.

I follow. My bf is very outspoken and is a man of action. Me, I'm a soft-spoken type who has to think a long time before I act/speak.

Both,sometimes I lead,at other times follow

I think it should be as equal as possible. :)

I do both