After being in a very vanilla relationship for a long time, what should I try to expand my horizons?
46-50, MNew
What do you have in mind? Something different sexually? New hobbies or traveling to places you've always wanted to go, but never did? Take up dancing, or a style of dancing you haven't before? SO many options before you. What is it that you want or desire?
averageguy · 46-50, MNew
@VeronicaJane that's the thing. I guess just not more of what I've experienced so far, which is pretty ordinary. At least in my opinion. Maybe I'm just not even sure that is the case.
KentuckyFriedFloozy · 26-30, F
averageguy · 46-50, MNew
@KentuckyFriedFloozy you say you're a floozy, what does that mean?
KentuckyFriedFloozy · 26-30, F
@averageguy just a name I thought was humorous. However I've been labeled things that are similar to a floozy lol
averageguy · 46-50, MNew
@KentuckyFriedFloozy lol
Self help books, therapy, deep healing, taking responsibility, let me know if you want more suggestions!
averageguy · 46-50, MNew
@deathfairy that all sounds like the opposite of what I'm asking
Sounds to me like you already know what you don’t want, or do want. @averageguy
averageguy · 46-50, MNew
@deathfairy to me, self help, therapy, deep healing: those are all isolating and "self-affirmation", which is the opposite of what I want. Throw me in with the wolves, lets see what happens
KentuckyFriedFloozy · 26-30, F
averageguy · 46-50, MNew
@KentuckyFriedFloozy The difficult part is finding someone that also wants to try things