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Please help me

Hey chat, I think my boyfriend of 12 months now is using me for my body every time we talk he turns it into something sexual and guilt trips me until I send him something and I can’t help it I love him so much and I send it to him but then he completely shuts me out and yk leaves me on seen or he would say smth dry and when I would try to continue the conversation he just doesn't put effort like I do. I know I sound like a fool but we have had our good times too, he’s the first ever person to make me feel loved in a way, I’m attached to him. He’s the only person that I have right now. Please help me.
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ViciDraco · 41-45, M
Sounds like you already know he doesn't love you.

This might be really hard, but try to stop and examine what it is that you love. So you love him, or is it that you are in love with the idea of being in love? I ask because you mention he's the first person to make you feel loved, and even though you don't feel that right now you see might be seeing him as a potential source of that feeling and trying to get it back. He's the only person that you have right now, but it sounds like you don't really have him.

Tell him you need someone who is going to put in more effort and love and if he isn't going to do it then you are going to start looking elsewhere. And that then hold to it. Don't let him get charming for two weeks and then sink back into this same behavior. Because that's exactly what he'll do. You'll think things are better now and then slowly you'll find yourself right back here.