I didn't waste my time on someone...I just lost my best friend.

When I retired I lost contact with all my friends. I miss her the most because she was one of the few that I didn't feel like an awkward geek around (the boy/girl thing aside). I could actually look her in the eye, which never happens. I may never have that again, but I really need someone to talk to now and then. That is why I'm on here.If that happens good deal, if not then I'm out nothing....

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ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F

I'm sorry you lost your best friend. Are you unable to track her down on social media? Maybe you could send her a message from another platform like Facebook or Instagram if she's on there.

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paulisretired · 51-55, M

@ChampagneOnIce Thanks, and thank you for the chat. I do much better conversing this way then in person and groups. I just don't have the chance to get on the computer or on here much.

ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F

@paulisretired I understand. Some days I have more time to be here than others. I mostly just reply to messages and comments.

paulisretired · 51-55, M

@ChampagneOnIce Yeah, it seems to be kinda that way for me. I'm busier now than when I was working 60 hours a week with the OT. I have a honey-do list that bends that imagination LOL

PoeticPlay · 51-55, M

If she really is the best?
Then do your best to show everyone (especially her) why you are her best friend.

In order to find a good friend, one must first be a good friend.

It worked out for me.
4 years of being apart after spending damn near 30 years together!

I couldn’t find nobody better for me.
She wished and prayed for me to get better.

Then the best thing happened to our friendship thus far. 😍🤩🥸😎🥲😂🤣🤣🤣

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paulisretired · 51-55, M

@PoeticPlay I heard that

SapphireSoul · 41-45, F

@PoeticPlay INFJ here too .

paulisretired · 51-55, M

@SapphireSoul What is INFJ?

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paulisretired · 51-55, M

@SandWitch I seem to recall that, in the past at least, if a man lived 5 years past retirement he was doing good. Maybe that is why people kept working...because when you stop moving, you stop. I guess?

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paulisretired · 51-55, M

@Misspotat 🙂

paulisretired · 51-55, M

@paulisretired What can you help with awkward geeks and old nerds?

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