I didn't waste my time on someone...I just lost my best friend.

When I retired I lost contact with all my friends. I miss her the most because she was one of the few that I didn't feel like an awkward geek around (the boy/girl thing aside). I could actually look her in the eye, which never happens. I may never have that again, but I really need someone to talk to now and then. That is why I'm on here.If that happens good deal, if not then I'm out nothing....

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PoeticPlay · 51-55, M

If she really is the best?
Then do your best to show everyone (especially her) why you are her best friend.

In order to find a good friend, one must first be a good friend.

It worked out for me.
4 years of being apart after spending damn near 30 years together!

I couldn’t find nobody better for me.
She wished and prayed for me to get better.

Then the best thing happened to our friendship thus far. 😍🤩🥸😎🥲😂🤣🤣🤣

paulisretired · 51-55, M

@PoeticPlay I showed her the way that I was her best friend, but the workplace gossip got in the way and now I cannot compete with rumors that tend towards a romantic nature. I assure you that I am not leaning that way. She is my best friend and I miss her.

PoeticPlay · 51-55, M

@paulisretired

paulisretired · 51-55, M

@PoeticPlay Yeah. I am slowly realizing that I got closer to her than she was ready for. That is the way of my social disfunction.

PoeticPlay · 51-55, M

@paulisretired
We are not disfunctional.

We just function outside of societies expectations.

Our imaginations motivate more than they expect.

Afraid that they will not be enough for us to accept.

(INFJ)

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paulisretired · 51-55, M

@PoeticPlay I heard that

SapphireSoul · 41-45, F

@PoeticPlay INFJ here too .

paulisretired · 51-55, M

@SapphireSoul What is INFJ?