What is your biggest fear about relationships?

Mine is that a woman would go after my money (retirement savings - I don't have normal savings) and my house and try to take those in seperation or divorce leaving me and my young daughter with nothing.

I can fully cope with my other relationship fears around dating and sex but losing my financial assets is a fear I would probably not be able to put to rest regardless of how genuine a woman claimed to be interested.

My first ex took the house and some of my retirement savings and second ex ruined my soul and belief in myself.

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exexec · 70-79, C

I have no fear in our relationship. When we were dating in college and she was going out with other guys, I was always afraid she would dump me. After all, she saw them every day, and she only saw me once or twice a month for a few hours. She told me not to worry, but I did.