I know this sort of thing goes both ways

It does go both ways, I can't say I've ever had intention of getting married. I did propose once, it was done in passion and not a mistake in that I loved her, but it was a mistake in another way.

That said, I have never ever cheated on someone. I have been cheated upon. So I know men get blamed this way, and I accept my faults, but ..... .... ....

Though personally, I did forgive her, and even though we are not together anymore, I am happy I did cause we did learn much about each other together in that time.

So I guess it depends on perspective?

Look at politicians. People rather have a married man who cheats over a man who is single. I have no idea why people vote for the married guy.

some men & women re just pieces of shit

Give em hell.... Darlin!!

Just playing devil's advocate here because I don't understand or like the whole fooling around thing but......
If your man gets sick do you want him to just eat your chicken noodle soup and drink your Verners to make him better or would you prefer he go see a doctor?
So shouldn't the same go for sex?
If he wants to get freaky with whips and handcuffs while dressed as a chimpanzee and you don't feel comfortable doing that shouldn't he be able to find someone that is?

It takes 2 to tango, For every POS cheating man , there’s a POS home wrecker waiting for his call .

Did someone cheat on you? Would you reconsider if the lying piece of shit was a multi-millionaire who saw to all your needs for the rest of your life, but wanted that outside nookie from time to time? I really want to know and won't judge you.

And vice versa

Some women are so desperate to hold onto a man, they never consider if he's worth it

I had a friend who grovelled on her knees for a lying cheater after he cheated on her for at least the tenth time 😔

Idk. I've never understood people who cheat in relationships, especially marriages.

I can only speak for myself and believe me; if I'm not content, I'm either working it out or walking away. No one deserves that kind of treatment.