I know this sort of thing goes both ways

But god damn why do men get married if they had no intention of being faithful whatsoever?

It’s almost like they get married with the intention of sleeping around

It’s disgusting.

I would rather spend my entire life alone and die alone than be with a cheating abusive piece of shit man

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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

Just playing devil's advocate here because I don't understand or like the whole fooling around thing but......
If your man gets sick do you want him to just eat your chicken noodle soup and drink your Verners to make him better or would you prefer he go see a doctor?
So shouldn't the same go for sex?
If he wants to get freaky with whips and handcuffs while dressed as a chimpanzee and you don't feel comfortable doing that shouldn't he be able to find someone that is?

SW-User

@Dainbramadge Umm, you aren't arguing cheating is an illness and by virtue should be accepted?

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

@SW-User no nothing like that.
Just trying to see it from a cheaters point of view.
Wouldn't that actually make me empathetic?

SW-User

@Dainbramadge I'll ask my ex, about the chimpanzee's?

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@Dainbramadge no, if I wanted my husband to sleep with other people he wouldn’t be my husband. He would be my disposable fuck buddy or fwb