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Why is everyone adamant about being in a relationship?

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zonavar68 ยท 51-55, M Best Comment
I'm not. I'm over them, and realise my personal situation means a functional positive rewarding adult erotic romantic relationship is really out of the question.

So I go day to day not worrying or caring about being single as I have other much more important priorities.
zonavar68 ยท 51-55, M
@maskedbandit All good. my 6 y/o daughter and my own wellbeing are the priorities. I don't need adult romance/sex/intimacy/companionship to be a good single parent.
maskedbandit ยท 61-69, M
@zonavar68 You got that right. Need more like you in todays world. ๐Ÿ‘
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@zonavar68 wise words

Raaii ยท 22-25, F
[c=BF0000] I don't understand why all they do is running after relationships
Shouldn't we just invest all this time on our improvements?
And relationships plus other things will automatically follow
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maskedbandit ยท 61-69, M
@Raaii That's a maybe. ๐Ÿคญ ๐Ÿ™‚
Raaii ยท 22-25, F
@Camelia [c=004A59]still it's okay friend
I've never been in your shoes
I'm just in my early twenties now
So my focus is on career and dreams
I don't mind loneliness
I've forgotten about other aspects of life but when I'll age more I'll understand better
I think then I'll also crave for a marriage
I guess it's just a matter of time๐Ÿ™‡โ€โ™€๏ธ
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maskedbandit ยท 61-69, M
@Raaii You will be alright. Good attitude, thinking ahead. ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ™‚
Lostpoet ยท M
Nobody wants to be alone.
Lostpoet ยท M
@Hanginginthere Nobody wants to always be alone. But I can see how it's necessary sometimes. I don't believe anyone really wants to be completely alone.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Lostpoet lone wolfs are the exception?
Lostpoet ยท M
@Hanginginthere Even lone wolves like company on cold nights.
Umile ยท 41-45, F
No man is an island.

Nobody wants to be alone, sometimes.

The title.

People keep all the bs just for that title.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Umile true
Melissa501 ยท 36-40, F
Except me. Been in that fucked up mess too many times. I pass.
Queendragonfly ยท 31-35, F
I'm not. But everytime I've been single and not been looking for someone, is when I always met someone at a random place at a random time who I got a romantic interest for.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Queendragonfly for me itโ€™s the opposite
Queendragonfly ยท 31-35, F
@Hanginginthere I don't recommend chasing women around. And romance isn't the only relationship we can focus on. There's family and friendship too.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Queendragonfly nah I donโ€™t chase people anymore I used to
Gingerbreadspice ยท F
Itโ€™s probably loneliness or insecurity if need to be in a relationship that badly. Otherwise itโ€™s a usual thing that many people eventually end up in.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Gingerbreadspice also true
maskedbandit ยท 61-69, M
I guess it's because or some people think, it's a match from heaven. That might not have made any sense. ๐Ÿ˜… ๐Ÿ™‚
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@maskedbandit it makes perfect sense
TexChik ยท F
Im only adamant about mine !
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@TexChik good means you arenโ€™t nosy
TexChik ยท F
@Hanginginthere Who? Me? Maybe. ๐Ÿ˜‰
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@TexChik nah youโ€™re alright
A lot of it is unfulfillment in other aspects of life
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@PepsiColaP hmm I hadnโ€™t thought of that
Jayciedubb ยท 56-60, M
..a situationship works too..
maskedbandit ยท 61-69, M
@Jayciedubb Yes, I would think so. ๐Ÿคฃ
zonavar68 ยท 51-55, M
@maskedbandit Covid made the 'isolationship' a normalised thing too 8-)
Stillwaiting ยท M
Not in that camp
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Stillwaiting me either
Stillwaiting ยท M
@Hanginginthere It isn't for everybody ..
Spoiledbrat ยท F
Companionship ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ‘€
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Spoiledbrat yes I suppose
SStarfish ยท
Not everyone..?
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@SStarfish *most
SW-User
Beats me.
caccoon ยท 36-40
Because we are social creatures that yearn for it by nature
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@caccoon not everyone is made that way tho
caccoon ยท 36-40
@Hanginginthere some people have more difficulty because of trauma, but by nature, we are
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@caccoon I suppose
uncalled4 ยท 56-60, M
Being in a bad relationship is 10x worse than being alone in my experience.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@uncalled4 ๐Ÿ˜‚ yes agreed

 
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