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I'm not. I'm over them, and realise my personal situation means a functional positive rewarding adult erotic romantic relationship is really out of the question.
So I go day to day not worrying or caring about being single as I have other much more important priorities.
So I go day to day not worrying or caring about being single as I have other much more important priorities.
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zonavar68 ยท 51-55, M
@maskedbandit All good. my 6 y/o daughter and my own wellbeing are the priorities. I don't need adult romance/sex/intimacy/companionship to be a good single parent.
maskedbandit ยท 61-69, M
@zonavar68 You got that right. Need more like you in todays world. ๐
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@zonavar68 wise words
Raaii ยท 22-25, F
[c=BF0000] I don't understand why all they do is running after relationships
Shouldn't we just invest all this time on our improvements?
And relationships plus other things will automatically follow
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Shouldn't we just invest all this time on our improvements?
And relationships plus other things will automatically follow
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maskedbandit ยท 61-69, M
@Raaii That's a maybe. ๐คญ ๐
Raaii ยท 22-25, F
@Camelia [c=004A59]still it's okay friend
I've never been in your shoes
I'm just in my early twenties now
So my focus is on career and dreams
I don't mind loneliness
I've forgotten about other aspects of life but when I'll age more I'll understand better
I think then I'll also crave for a marriage
I guess it's just a matter of time๐โโ๏ธ
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I've never been in your shoes
I'm just in my early twenties now
So my focus is on career and dreams
I don't mind loneliness
I've forgotten about other aspects of life but when I'll age more I'll understand better
I think then I'll also crave for a marriage
I guess it's just a matter of time๐โโ๏ธ
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maskedbandit ยท 61-69, M
@Raaii You will be alright. Good attitude, thinking ahead. ๐ ๐
Lostpoet ยท M
Nobody wants to be alone.
Lostpoet ยท M
@Hanginginthere Nobody wants to always be alone. But I can see how it's necessary sometimes. I don't believe anyone really wants to be completely alone.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Lostpoet lone wolfs are the exception?
Lostpoet ยท M
@Hanginginthere Even lone wolves like company on cold nights.
Umile ยท 41-45, F
No man is an island.
Nobody wants to be alone, sometimes.
The title.
People keep all the bs just for that title.
Nobody wants to be alone, sometimes.
The title.
People keep all the bs just for that title.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Umile true
Melissa501 ยท 36-40, F
Except me. Been in that fucked up mess too many times. I pass.
Queendragonfly ยท 31-35, F
I'm not. But everytime I've been single and not been looking for someone, is when I always met someone at a random place at a random time who I got a romantic interest for.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Queendragonfly for me itโs the opposite
Queendragonfly ยท 31-35, F
@Hanginginthere I don't recommend chasing women around. And romance isn't the only relationship we can focus on. There's family and friendship too.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Queendragonfly nah I donโt chase people anymore I used to
Gingerbreadspice ยท F
Itโs probably loneliness or insecurity if need to be in a relationship that badly. Otherwise itโs a usual thing that many people eventually end up in.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Gingerbreadspice also true
maskedbandit ยท 61-69, M
I guess it's because or some people think, it's a match from heaven. That might not have made any sense. ๐
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Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@maskedbandit it makes perfect sense
TexChik ยท F
Im only adamant about mine !
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@TexChik good means you arenโt nosy
TexChik ยท F
@Hanginginthere Who? Me? Maybe. ๐
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@TexChik nah youโre alright
A lot of it is unfulfillment in other aspects of life
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@PepsiColaP hmm I hadnโt thought of that
Jayciedubb ยท 56-60, M
..a situationship works too..
maskedbandit ยท 61-69, M
@Jayciedubb Yes, I would think so. ๐คฃ
zonavar68 ยท 51-55, M
@maskedbandit Covid made the 'isolationship' a normalised thing too 8-)
Stillwaiting ยท M
Not in that camp
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Stillwaiting me either
Stillwaiting ยท M
@Hanginginthere It isn't for everybody ..
Spoiledbrat ยท F
Companionship ๐ค๐
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@Spoiledbrat yes I suppose
SStarfish ยท
Not everyone..?
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@SStarfish *most
SW-User
Beats me.
caccoon ยท 36-40
Because we are social creatures that yearn for it by nature
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@caccoon not everyone is made that way tho
caccoon ยท 36-40
@Hanginginthere some people have more difficulty because of trauma, but by nature, we are
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@caccoon I suppose
uncalled4 ยท 56-60, M
Being in a bad relationship is 10x worse than being alone in my experience.
Hanginginthere ยท 31-35, M
@uncalled4 ๐ yes agreed