I'm not. I'm over them, and realise my personal situation means a functional positive rewarding adult erotic romantic relationship is really out of the question.
So I go day to day not worrying or caring about being single as I have other much more important priorities.
So I go day to day not worrying or caring about being single as I have other much more important priorities.
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zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@maskedbandit All good. my 6 y/o daughter and my own wellbeing are the priorities. I don't need adult romance/sex/intimacy/companionship to be a good single parent.
maskedbandit · 61-69, M
@zonavar68 You got that right. Need more like you in todays world. 👍
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@zonavar68 wise words
Raaii · 22-25, F
I don't understand why all they do is running after relationships
Shouldn't we just invest all this time on our improvements?
And relationships plus other things will automatically follow
🤦♀️
Shouldn't we just invest all this time on our improvements?
And relationships plus other things will automatically follow
🤦♀️
maskedbandit · 61-69, M
@Raaii That's a maybe. 🤭 🙂
Raaii · 22-25, F
@Aysel still it's okay friend
I've never been in your shoes
I'm just in my early twenties now
So my focus is on career and dreams
I don't mind loneliness
I've forgotten about other aspects of life but when I'll age more I'll understand better
I think then I'll also crave for a marriage
I guess it's just a matter of time🙇♀️
I've never been in your shoes
I'm just in my early twenties now
So my focus is on career and dreams
I don't mind loneliness
I've forgotten about other aspects of life but when I'll age more I'll understand better
I think then I'll also crave for a marriage
I guess it's just a matter of time🙇♀️
maskedbandit · 61-69, M
@Raaii You will be alright. Good attitude, thinking ahead. 👍 🙂
Lostpoet · M
Nobody wants to be alone.
Lostpoet · M
@Moneyonmymind Nobody wants to always be alone. But I can see how it's necessary sometimes. I don't believe anyone really wants to be completely alone.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Lostpoet lone wolfs are the exception?
Lostpoet · M
@Moneyonmymind Even lone wolves like company on cold nights.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
I'm not. But everytime I've been single and not been looking for someone, is when I always met someone at a random place at a random time who I got a romantic interest for.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Queendragonfly for me it’s the opposite
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@Moneyonmymind I don't recommend chasing women around. And romance isn't the only relationship we can focus on. There's family and friendship too.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Queendragonfly nah I don’t chase people anymore I used to
Umile · 41-45, F
No man is an island.
Nobody wants to be alone, sometimes.
The title.
People keep all the bs just for that title.
Nobody wants to be alone, sometimes.
The title.
People keep all the bs just for that title.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Umile true
Gingerbreadspice · F
It’s probably loneliness or insecurity if need to be in a relationship that badly. Otherwise it’s a usual thing that many people eventually end up in.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Gingerbreadspice also true
maskedbandit · 61-69, M
I guess it's because or some people think, it's a match from heaven. That might not have made any sense. 😅 🙂
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@maskedbandit it makes perfect sense
TexChik · F
Im only adamant about mine !
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@TexChik good means you aren’t nosy
TexChik · F
@Moneyonmymind Who? Me? Maybe. 😉
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@TexChik nah you’re alright
A lot of it is unfulfillment in other aspects of life
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@PepsiColaP hmm I hadn’t thought of that
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
..a situationship works too..
maskedbandit · 61-69, M
@Jayciedubb Yes, I would think so. 🤣
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@maskedbandit Covid made the 'isolationship' a normalised thing too 8-)
Stillwaiting · M
Not in that camp
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Stillwaiting me either
Stillwaiting · M
@Moneyonmymind It isn't for everybody ..
Spoiledbrat · F
Companionship 🤔👀
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Spoiledbrat yes I suppose
YoMomma ·
Not everyone..?
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@YoMomma *most

SW-User
Beats me.
caccoon · 36-40
Because we are social creatures that yearn for it by nature
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@caccoon not everyone is made that way tho
caccoon · 36-40
@Moneyonmymind some people have more difficulty because of trauma, but by nature, we are
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@caccoon I suppose
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Being in a bad relationship is 10x worse than being alone in my experience.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@uncalled4 😂 yes agreed
lostlissa · 36-40, F
Except me. Been in that fucked up mess too many times. I pass.