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Why is everyone adamant about being in a relationship?

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M Best Comment
I'm not. I'm over them, and realise my personal situation means a functional positive rewarding adult erotic romantic relationship is really out of the question.

So I go day to day not worrying or caring about being single as I have other much more important priorities.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@maskedbandit All good. my 6 y/o daughter and my own wellbeing are the priorities. I don't need adult romance/sex/intimacy/companionship to be a good single parent.
maskedbandit · 61-69, M
@zonavar68 You got that right. Need more like you in todays world. 👍
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@zonavar68 wise words

Raaii · 22-25, F
I don't understand why all they do is running after relationships
Shouldn't we just invest all this time on our improvements?
And relationships plus other things will automatically follow
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maskedbandit · 61-69, M
@Raaii That's a maybe. 🤭 🙂
Raaii · 22-25, F
@Aysel still it's okay friend
I've never been in your shoes
I'm just in my early twenties now
So my focus is on career and dreams
I don't mind loneliness
I've forgotten about other aspects of life but when I'll age more I'll understand better
I think then I'll also crave for a marriage
I guess it's just a matter of time🙇‍♀️
maskedbandit · 61-69, M
@Raaii You will be alright. Good attitude, thinking ahead. 👍 🙂
Lostpoet · M
Nobody wants to be alone.
Lostpoet · M
@Moneyonmymind Nobody wants to always be alone. But I can see how it's necessary sometimes. I don't believe anyone really wants to be completely alone.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Lostpoet lone wolfs are the exception?
Lostpoet · M
@Moneyonmymind Even lone wolves like company on cold nights.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
I'm not. But everytime I've been single and not been looking for someone, is when I always met someone at a random place at a random time who I got a romantic interest for.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Queendragonfly for me it’s the opposite
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@Moneyonmymind I don't recommend chasing women around. And romance isn't the only relationship we can focus on. There's family and friendship too.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Queendragonfly nah I don’t chase people anymore I used to
Umile · 41-45, F
No man is an island.

Nobody wants to be alone, sometimes.

The title.

People keep all the bs just for that title.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Umile true
It’s probably loneliness or insecurity if need to be in a relationship that badly. Otherwise it’s a usual thing that many people eventually end up in.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Gingerbreadspice also true
maskedbandit · 61-69, M
I guess it's because or some people think, it's a match from heaven. That might not have made any sense. 😅 🙂
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@maskedbandit it makes perfect sense
TexChik · F
Im only adamant about mine !
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@TexChik good means you aren’t nosy
TexChik · F
@Moneyonmymind Who? Me? Maybe. 😉
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@TexChik nah you’re alright
A lot of it is unfulfillment in other aspects of life
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@PepsiColaP hmm I hadn’t thought of that
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
..a situationship works too..
maskedbandit · 61-69, M
@Jayciedubb Yes, I would think so. 🤣
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@maskedbandit Covid made the 'isolationship' a normalised thing too 8-)
Not in that camp
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Stillwaiting me either
@Moneyonmymind It isn't for everybody ..
Companionship 🤔👀
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Spoiledbrat yes I suppose
YoMomma ·
Not everyone..?
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@YoMomma *most
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caccoon · 36-40
Because we are social creatures that yearn for it by nature
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@caccoon not everyone is made that way tho
caccoon · 36-40
@Moneyonmymind some people have more difficulty because of trauma, but by nature, we are
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@caccoon I suppose
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Being in a bad relationship is 10x worse than being alone in my experience.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@uncalled4 😂 yes agreed
lostlissa · 36-40, F
Except me. Been in that fucked up mess too many times. I pass.

 
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