If your partner cheated with a coworker, would you rather find out from them directly or from a colleague at work?

I would expect to hear it directly from my wife.

It happened to me, the co worker told me, then days later he showed up to " confess". I dumped him abd de friended her.
Once a cheater..always a cheater

Both i need to hear both sides

to hell with them

Collegue at work. Your more likley to get the actual story from the bystander rather than the person who wanrs to make it sound like not a big deal.