What are some tips to develop trust in men?

@GuyWithOpinions my fear comes from actual real bad experiences 😞

@SStarfish ok!

@sahi81 ok 😊

@sahi81 it takes a really long time to get to know someone so you’re going to just have to be patient

@BrandNewMan past experiences.... Good men I met turned out bad and bad ones also turned out bad. Mostly only bad ones came in my life till now.

@sahi81 how you feel it’s important, how you think is more mportant.

@redredred sry what u mean, i didn't get it... What is important?

@sahi81 draw the distinction between feeling a certain way and thinking a certain way. They’re not the same thing.

@1490wayb yes , that's the problem. When most seem bad or immature, when come across good ones, it's hard to believe if they r actually good or pretending to be good.

@1490wayb what happened from my personal experience was, many bad ones pretended to be good but the bad boy type ones were honest about being bad but showed few kind behaviours ( which i believe r just show or maybe real but that doesn't excuse bad behaviours), still they were bad and never changed their bad behaviours.

Problem is good ones i met turned out bad, bad ones i met also turned out bad. I feel disillusioned about the exsistance of good men when i meet them, i feel they too might be pretending or will betray me.😭