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What are some tips to develop trust in men?

When good men come in my life, i am not able to trust them. What can i do?

I don't feel safe around men in general.
Find out if they are trustworthy before you trust them 😅
@sahi81 idk just get to know them first .. dont be quick to trust a stranger 😒
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@sahi81 ok 😊
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Stop watching the news, stay off social media and talk to friends of friends who you do trust.

Your fear comes from stereotypes that probably dont even apply to you.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@GuyWithOpinions my fear comes from actual real bad experiences 😞
redredred · M
Then stay away until you grow up. Assuming half of humanity is out to get you is very near the clinical definition of paranoia.
DailyFlash · 56-60, M
Go to therapy and talk out your trust issues. They started a long time ago. You'll feel better
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I don't trust them either. In fact, I don't trust anyone. That's why I live in a van down by the river!
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
Getz a JoBz, earnZ MunieZ, looks aftERz urselFz ands TehZn mayBeZ commentZ on theZ qualitY of uDdERz
dale74 · M
Same is true for men a lot of us just give up tired of being used and cheated on.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Find trustworthy men.
Filho · 36-40, M
HumanEarth · F
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
Therapy would help, but ultimately you're just going to have to take a chance on someone.
BrandNewMan · MNew
... aaaand why is that?
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@BrandNewMan past experiences.... Good men I met turned out bad and bad ones also turned out bad. Mostly only bad ones came in my life till now.
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sahi81 · 22-25, F
@1490wayb yes , that's the problem. When most seem bad or immature, when come across good ones, it's hard to believe if they r actually good or pretending to be good.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@1490wayb what happened from my personal experience was, many bad ones pretended to be good but the bad boy type ones were honest about being bad but showed few kind behaviours ( which i believe r just show or maybe real but that doesn't excuse bad behaviours), still they were bad and never changed their bad behaviours.

Problem is good ones i met turned out bad, bad ones i met also turned out bad. I feel disillusioned about the exsistance of good men when i meet them, i feel they too might be pretending or will betray me.😭

 
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