@WendyLopez43 And when you are a little older in the near future and you are all alone and you would love to have someone surprise you and pop in unexpectedly..... My mother in law married her job. She put her kids in child care as she climbed the bureaucratic ladder to success. She became the top bureaucrat in her department. She ignored her kids. My mom was a farmer's wife. She would put a baby on her back and go help her husband do the chores or field work. Her kids grew up loving her and her wisdom. The day came for them to die. My mom spent her last few days surrounded by Sons and daughters and grandsons and granddaughters and great grandchildren. Love was poured out in the room. My mother in law was attended by me and my wife. Her children and grandchildren didn't care that the poor old lady was passing. Her son couldn't bother to drive across the city to see her. Yes her selfishness paid dividends.

@hippyjoe1955 If I didn't have my husband, I would rather die alone than have a kid I have no business having and would be terrible at taking care of.

@WendyLopez43 If you say so. Your loss.

@empanadas aw come on!