Youmust be god too

I'm not god...

@TheWhiteRabbit: Its my fault ;)

I was saying I didn't think he should have such severe opinions about open-marriages if you haven't been in one. Just like saying "I have never done drugs, but its easy to give them up"

Then owl came back with "Pedophilia, I don't need to experience it to know its bad" ...

i was arguing with pherick. he said that i must be in an open marriage to understand it and have an opinion on it.. thats when i told him that i dont have to be a pedophile to understand it as they justify their behaviors. doesnt mean i have to do it to have an opinion on it.@TheWhiteRabbit:

@TheWhiteRabbit: some people can't stop thinking about fucking little kids

thats what i think too.

Why bother caring what others do or how they define marriage for themselves?

why bother trying to change what people think or disagree with.

I never said that.

you wrote something like that.

This is exactly what happened. Some jackass asked:
do you tell your husband about other men fucking you? Does he like to hear about it?

And I responded to said jackass:
I tell him who I am going out with and where, but I don't give him details of my sex life. Everyone deserves privacy.

It is quite the opposite of what you said, that I "doesnt even tell her husband who she messes around with". He has met every one of them.

@theowl: What about the people who DO truly love more than one person? And manage to stay with the both of them for the rest of their lives? It could be real love, and it does exist. It's just not "normal".

even the multiple marriages have struggles.. theres that one on tv. that mormon guy with like 4 or 5 wives.. one of the wives is getting a divorce. its hard having just one relationship but many is chaos. like that saying you cant serve two masters youll love on and hate the other or youll spend more attention on one than the other.

@theowl: Polyamory is not your definition of "real love", however that does not invalidate its' existence, reality, or sincerity; nor does it declassify those who share open-relationships, open-marriages, or mutually-consensual extramarital affairs as "not in love".

We are all rightfully due respect, regardless of understanding, agreement, or empathy, towards our romantic and sexual preferences (wherein no non-consenting party is harmed, etc).

Simply because you are salty over what I can only assume is a bad experience with a cheater or affair, does not equate to having the power or ability to write-off the preferences of others.

Sit down and stay in your lane.

I think you need the context of his judgey ranting.

so you are saying no one should have an opinion what so ever.. it was more about me and pherick arguing about it. for the reason for the block.

Oh yea. That is exactly what I said 🙄🤔

No. You are not some hugher power being who has tbe tight to deem marriages viable or not based on your beliefs.

Jesus... You are very opinionated. Nothing wrong with that. Problem is you think everyone has to live by your rules and :NEWS FLASH...they do not.

@DeadCowboy: context matters not

He has no grasp anyway

Interesting.

So marriage with two people who have no control over being married = real.

Marriage with two people who have full control over being married = not real.

I fail to see the logic in that.

they make it a marriage. they stay committed. they arent acting like single people with the benefits of a marriage.

@theowl: Yea I think we are just going to have to disagree on this one. To me, people forced to marry disregard the whole point of a marriage. To be with someone you love and trust.

Open-marriage people my have sex outside of marriage, but they still are in a marriage by virtue of wanting to be there.

yeah for saying its not really a marriage in my opinion.

and arguing with pherick over it.

Well, I can see your position and can't criticize your thinking on it. I guess consider yourself lucky?

thats what my thoughts were

huh?

she blocked you too over what?

but like what poisonapple or whatever her name was she didnt even tell her husband the men she was messing with.

This!

yeah its like singlehood but yet have the money and assets of a married person

@theowl: and "couples just starting out" are always selected first for the better more accommodating living arrangements. there are many benefits to meeting certain criteria. in canada a frenchman who can mumble just a few words of english is considered bilingual but it is not the other way around.

yeah...

@theowl: I think it's pretty messed up too 🤓

lol