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How do you know if you're 'marriage material '?

What causes a person to believe that they have what it takes?
A man has huge amounts of money, and a woman's wealth is up to menopause in sex services. The well off also buy breeder women like Melanie.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Roundandroundwego The 666 rule in action.
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robertsnj · 56-60, M
It is a good question and well worded.

I am not on the mareket and I am not sure on a personal level if I am or am not but:

going for me

good income
in good shape
emotionally stable
way less baggage than most people my age
animal lover (noticed women put a high value on that)

going against me
balding
teeth issues
age
atheist
not want (or have) kids
conservative with money (less inclined to spend then most people)
would say I am just less than avg looking but not overweight

I like the question a lot though because I feel that phrase gets thrown around in dating world and even on places like this. It is seems to be someone asking if you are marriage material without doing a self check on what they bring to the table .

In theory if you ask this question of someone you should also answer it in return.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Very likely past experiences.

Realistically ask yourself: do you think you could get back into most of your previous relationships?

This is not fool proof. Yet nothing really is fool proof.

Yet if you really think you could with ALL your past relationships, then it's highly likely you're marriage material.

I'm referring to even those you have lived with. Not just dating.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@zonavar68 I have had a lot of female roommates and girlfriends, all of them one at a time. There's only one that I wouldn't get back with. I don't believe anyone in their right mind would take that one back, if they knew what she did.

Only asked one to marry. She turned me down. Yet I would still take her and any of the others back.

My parents separated when I was a baby. I know the reason why though.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@DeWayfarer I've not had any experiences like that, so you've had a good run of luck there with women getting interested in you that much.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@zonavar68 thirty years ago!
If you think you do. If you believe in marriage. If you want to go through life with another. And you believe in commitment, loyalty, respect, and the other values inherent to a marriage. If you also believe in a love that lasts forever.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@PoetryNEmotion none of that confers that marriage is the correct approach though.
@zonavar68 Correct? I believe in it. You can believe whatever you want. There is no vorrext. There is a commitment people value and promote.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
I’m not sure any of us really know. We may know when we can’t see ourselves being with anyone else only that person you’re with. Maybe when you decide you’ve had enough of the dating scene and want to settle with someone special and start a family.
Alisha233 · 31-35, F
I think the lack of people who actually ask that question results in divorce.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Alisha233 Indeed. There's a significant difference between believing you're suitable for marriage and actually understanding and knowing why you think that. You can't do something if you don't know why you feel that you need or want to do it.
Heart instinct maybe

 
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