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Is marriage is a bad idea for men ?

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Primnproper · 56-60, F

Why just men, maybe it’s bad for all of us. Lol

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Primnproper · 56-60, F

@Hanginginthere nobody should rush into marriage ever..👍

Hanginginthere · 31-35, M

@Primnproper 😂 if only more people thought like us in regards to that

Primnproper · 56-60, F

@Hanginginthere 🙂

TexChik · F

Odd question. My husband is perfectly happy.

Nimbus · M

@TexChik Yay! 👍

nedkelly · 61-69, M

@TexChik and very lucky

AbbeyRhode · F

No, but marrying some young bimbo you don't even know can end badly. Just ask Johnny Depp about that. 😜

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PatKirby · M

@sladejr

Johnny Depp/Amber Heard Tip Jar Battle...

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sladejr · 56-60, M

@PatKirby

D of Bag!

jackson55 · M

Don’t bother to get married. Find a woman you don’t like and buy her a house. Save the heartache.

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

Should be a punishment for single criminal repeat offenders !

Every time you get convicted you gain another Mother-in-law !!!

Nimbus · M

@Picklebobble2 Is that you Bernard Manning? 😄

ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F

Getting married is basically just betting someone half of your stuff that you’ll stay together forever

I don’t recommend it

graphite · 61-69, M

@ImpeccablyImperfect Usually, it's the man losing half his stuff or more. I read something from a guy who built his own house with his own two hands. His wife got the house he built in the divorce.

graphite · 61-69, M

Wife divorces husband for being too perfect. Let's make sure we keep husbands at fault in divorce even if he has none. (Remember - women file for divorce 70+ % of the time)
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graphite · 61-69, M

@BritishFailedAesthetic And he committed how much violence? What's that? Zero?

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Nimbus · M

@graphite Too perfect! 😆

nedkelly · 61-69, M

I am telling Abbey

Some reasons to stay single - football, cricket, TV controlled, no nagging - I rest my case

Nimbus · M

@nedkelly The voice of experience ;)

graphite · 61-69, M

In some ways, yes. About 70-80% of divorces are filed by women, often because she's bored. She will get custody of the children and huge property and cash assets from the divorce. He will get the bills and blame and may never see his children again. He also can get hit with child support for a kid that's not even his. She will get sympathy while the husband will get blame. There's lots of reasons men are simply saying no to marriage these days. Lots of guys have seen their brothers, fathers, uncles, etc destroyed in family court and want no part of it.

PatKirby · M

@graphite

Here, hear. This is but an abbreviated list of many reasons the juice is no longer worth the squeeze, and why an increasing amount of men are choosing no to contemporary marriage. Here is another...

GentleLucille · 26-30, F

@graphite Settlements determined in courts ensure that childrens' interests are not compromised by their parents' dispute. Men who insist on viewing everything through the filter of "blame", "sympathy" and property rights, are unlikely to be the best judges of their childrens' interests.

Flenflyys · 31-35, F

Marriage is a great idea for men, not so much for women

MrSmooTh · 31-35, M

Marriage is just an all around bad idea. We can't even trust the government to balance a budget, do you really want them in on your love life too?

Nimbus · M

@MrSmooTh 👍

Degbeme · 70-79, M

Nimbus · M

@Degbeme Man of few words uh? 😄

BiasForAction · M

I think it all depends on other factors like who you are marrying and what you want out of marriage

Nimbus · M

@BiasForAction For sure 👍

Gingerbreadspice · F

I hope so. My ex boyfriend is about to marry a man. That’ll teach him.

Nimbus · M

@Gingerbreadspice So generous ;)

Justice4All · 36-40, M

@Gingerbreadspice 🤯

elafina · 36-40, F

For everyone no ? 🤭

Nimbus · M

@elafina 😄

saragoodtimes · F

if he didn't marry me he would never have experienced the "goodtimes"

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MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@saragoodtimes I agree. Marriage after sex is VERY tough.

saragoodtimes · F

@MrBrownstone overcooked steak is tough, Sara is tender and tasty

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@saragoodtimes Definitely want to taste you.

SlaveEt · 36-40, F

Depends on the woman and the quality of the prenup😉

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graphite · 61-69, M

@SlaveEt Meanwhile...

https://stelklaw.com/blog/how-to-nullify-a-prenuptial-agreement/

Excerpt: The most common grounds to dissolve a prenuptial agreement include coercion or duress, unconscionability, and failure to disclose. The courts will generally enforce prenuptial agreements; however, when one or more of these grounds exist, the court may see fit to void all or parts of a prenup.

SlaveEt · 36-40, F

@graphite
Relationships are a risk. Choose wisely🤷‍♀️

BritishFailedAesthetic · M

@graphite Unfortunately the vast majority of people aren't Christian so they won't see marriage the way we do.

Also- take it easy on your women bashing.