I did not expect that...

It's the game some guys or even girls play on other people who are already in a relationship.
Step one. Get it into their mind.
Step two. Wait and see.
He purposely mentioned it to you and if you continue be nice to him or befriend with him. He may see it as a crack to slide in, any vulnerable time. If you really don't want it than you must draw the red line.
Completely cut off. In my experience around, this is how things eventually develop and progress. You should not care, how he feels to be honest

I was once told by someone out of the blue that they loved me platonically, friendly , romantically, any way I wanted. The latter was retracted the next day. But that was the INTERNET. It does that to people. And of course in real life they moved on with someone new. I wish her well.

Some people can't take being friends with someone they know have romantic interest. If that's how you feel, you were right to ask him to stay away. And if he's persistent imo, just keep saying "No." no context, no reasons just "NO" before blocking him

I would say that his "having feelings" can just be an admission. Aren't we all encouraged to own our emotions? As long as he maintains respect for you and your boundaries, there should be nothing to worry over. Don't overreact. You can always sever all contact if he crosses lines.

People do get crushes and are attracted to other people, even if they are married. It is how they deal with those emotions that determines whether it is cringeworthy or not.

Sorry to hear that a random guy admitting feelings for you has affected your sleep and feelings of safety 🥺🫂🫂🫂

Tell your husband what happened and let him know how it upset you if not he will sense your hiding something from him

Why not....donu keep thinking about what he said or about him......how well do u know him ?

Dont lose sleep over it
It happens online too. Just move on and enjoy your life with your hubby.

Take it as a compliment he things you attractive... There's no need to think more