i had a brother in law married 5 times second wife was the best one she kept him straight , first one was cheating on him but he was drunk all the time third ,4yh and 5th ones divorced him because he was drunk every day he had enough money from 2nd wifes insurance to keep number 3 happy for a about 3 years he died dead broke , his story was he ran 4 of them off because he wouldn't take care of him ,he lived with my wife and i for his last 7 years he died of cancer ,when i heard him tell a nurse why he wasent married and he told her i asked what did he ever do for any of his x wifes he couldn't answer that .