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TexChik · F
If you believe marriage ( the act ) is going to solve your relationship problems you won’t be happy . First only marry for someone who you could not live without and they you …marriage only gives you the opportunity to build on that, or ruin it … depending on how important it is for you . My husband and I became closer friends after we married . Spouses need their space just like singles do ..( * free marriage hack*)
My marriage is the best decision I ever made . But my husband and I built that !
My marriage is the best decision I ever made . But my husband and I built that !
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
Submissiveiendencies · 18-21
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
LoveBeingWatched · 51-55, M
Magnolia21 · 22-25, F
benfaltiger004 · 46-50, M
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
Im not being smart but i think myself " could be wrong " but i think anyone in long term relationships when there in it , it gets stale after while cause personally i think in some part of there mind is that there freedom is taking away .
I think then communications goes and then arguements continues and all of the crap that comes with that .
Im single 14 years now . Id like a relationship but not what it brings when communication breaks down .
You could be the loneliest person in the world and still be in a relationship .
And thats not just with sexual relationships, all relationships.
I used to be a very person person before now i spend most of my time on my own .
I don't know is it depression or what but life can throw you in a different way without expecting it .
I think then communications goes and then arguements continues and all of the crap that comes with that .
Im single 14 years now . Id like a relationship but not what it brings when communication breaks down .
You could be the loneliest person in the world and still be in a relationship .
And thats not just with sexual relationships, all relationships.
I used to be a very person person before now i spend most of my time on my own .
I don't know is it depression or what but life can throw you in a different way without expecting it .
tmmaier · 51-55, F
@riseofthemachine perhaps explore a power exchange type relationship. What you are explaining in lack of communication. Communication is a pillar in a power exchange relationship. Arguments are a power struggle. When one person leads or is dominant and the other partner chooses to submit it creates a trusting beautiful symbiotic dance. It is exciting to grow together with your partner and there are always new avenues to explore together .
Life is what you choose to make of it...
Life is what you choose to make of it...
Renkon · 36-40, M
Someone once said to me, Love your Lover, befriend your friend and marry your wife. You can't expect one for the other. And something I have noticed is when a child comes into the picture, the couples will have a new goal to strive together for. It changes everything. The child is the glue that binds the family. From what you said I am feeling you are in your 2-3rd year of marriage. These boredom happens.
LustControl · M
@Renkon that is why the French were right to have sex with someone other than their spouse. Or at least in addition to their spouse. Improves the marriage greatly.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@LustControl O boy! I didn't mean that way. It meant to have a clarity on our expectations.
antonioioio · 70-79, M
@Anielka wise lady 💗
saragoodtimes · F
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@saragoodtimes is it really all one way for you?😥
LustControl · M
MonaMartinez86 · 36-40, F
Because you think all your going to do is have sex and and cuddles, but marriage is not about sex all the time or being cute, you’re appearance’s change either you get better or you get worse, you don’t have too much to talk about unless you argue, but then all people think marriage is about talking and having sex it’s not