Maybe the incompatibility of my parents is how it’s meant to be for wifey and I

My parents, it really seems that they cannot stand each other! My mom is very serious and doesn’t mess around for anything, while my dad is so laid back and such a big jokester. They’re at each other’s throats more often than not whenever I see them together. Obviously , there’s still some form of love between them or they wouldn’t still be together after 30+ years. My wife and I are feuding more often than not nowadays and have been for a while, yet we’re still together. What if that’s how we’re meant to be as well? I like to think we were meant to be since just our meeting was so ridiculously coincidental, lol. But if it was, yet we’re still sick of each other all the time, what if it’s one in the same? We’re not happy together, yet at the same time, we are just enough to stay together? If that is indeed the case, I suppose I have it decide if that’s a good thing for a bad thing.