I visited my wife

She leaves again Monday and I just wanted to see her again before she does. I offered all I could for her to get her the help she needs, choosing my language carefully so it doesn’t come off condescending in any way. Even so, she flat-out refused. But the way she did so, in a genuinely remorseful tone: “I’m sorry, but no. It’s too late for that.”

My heart sank. I’m sorry she feels that way. I truly am. I’ve said this before, but I just hope she knows that my no longer being with her is not because I don’t care about her anymore. I still love her. In a perfect life, her and Desmond would both have an active place in my life.

I gave her a big hug and wished her all the best on her trip. I even told her I love her. She said she loves me too and to tell Desmond she loves him too. That’s about all I can ask for.

😞

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Straylight · 31-35, F

I feel for you. But it’s a hard fact that you can’t help someone who won’t let themselves be helped. I hope she comes around and tries to get better.

CassandraSissy · 26-30, T

Oh sweetie! I feel for you. Never been in that situation, and never hope to be, but you're trying the best you can.

Hugs...

😔

Jamesy · 41-45, M

Don't ever say again that your not a good person, your as good as it gets .
Oops I got you mixed up with someone else, but it's true, your good.

Degbeme · 70-79, M

It`s never too late, but you can`t force her. You did try, that`s all you can do.

idontcareok · 70-79, M

your wife? but you are female, as your avatar says, ??

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