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From Mistakes To Meaning" A Husband's Promise

💔I won't sugarcoat the the thruth-I've made Mistakes. I've caused Pain and Heartache to the One Person who has stood by me through storms I created myself. For years I was blinded by pride, distraction, selfishness and in the process I broke hearts and trust- especially the Heart of my Wife. But here I am,not making excuses- making a change. Because I've realised that no success, no pride and no comfort is worth anything if the one you Love is broken because of you. I've learned that Love isn't about words, it's about showing up differently. It's about healing what you've hurt, protecting what you've neglected and rebuilding what collapsed and torn right in front of your eyes. To my Wife the Woman who's seen the worst of me but once loved the best of me- I want to say this: I'm not giving up on us. I am not the same man I used to be. I'm fighting to be the man you always believed I could become. Marriage isn't about perfection: It's about perseverance. It's about choosing each other again and again, even when it's hard, even when trust needs to be rebuilt from the ground up. So here's my Vow today- not just to Love you, but to prove it every single day. To listen more, to understand deeper and to protect our Bond like it's sacred-because it is. Love can rise again when two hearts decide that Forever means fighting through the pain, not running from it. I. Believe in Us- not because it's easy, but because it's Worth it. ❤❤
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Bleak · 36-40, F
The best part is you have realized.
I know people would criticize me for my saying that starting over needs real guts. They would be like it’s too late to satrt over. But I think it’s never late. And you are doing it.
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
..sounds good, but talk is cheap. It's been my experience that people will say anything to get what they want then go back to being who they really are once they get what they want. Its almost impossible to change your personality

Im not trying to throw salt in your mix. Im trying to let you know what to look for or expect so you can stay on course if that's youre true intention.

Another thing to keep in mind is that women don't forget. .
Verifier · 51-55, M
@Jayciedubb I hear u 110%
Adrift · 61-69, F
Its funny you say all this but your profile says something different.
Divorced, private chat, here to meet women.
Whereas hers says married, discussions, friends and support?
That by itself tells me alot.
come2gether · 46-50, M
I read her post on this. Stand up and make it right bro. Make everything right again
Verifier · 51-55, M
@come2gether Thanks man appreciate it
4meAndyou · F
Wow! You had a Charlie Kirk style epiphany!!! I hope your wife is able to recover her feelings for you, and that you both continue in marriage and have a very happy life together!
Verifier · 51-55, M
@4meAndyou Thank u with God's grace I will
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Blondily · F
Beautiful words. I hope you keep your promises because if you do there is hope.
Verifier · 51-55, M
@Blondily Thank u appreciate it
MarkRichardson · 46-50, M
Just chat together. Not on here. Real life. Together. Make it work out for you both.

Good luck.
Verifier · 51-55, M
@MarkRichardson Thank u we certainly will much appreciate it
PHlover19701 · 56-60, M
Your profile doesnt match what you wrote above. It says youre Divorced and youre here for private chat and to meet women. A lot of conflicting words here.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
Never stop saying it and never stop showing it.
Verifier · 51-55, M
@AngelUnforgiven I definitely won't thank u for your support
helenS · 36-40, F
Is that a letter you sent your wife?
Journaling4Me · 56-60, F
@helenS Yes, she did..Here is her response...

https://similarworlds.com/relationships/5426165-FINAL-CHAPTER-TO-MY-STORY-This-morning-I-discovered-that-a
helenS · 36-40, F
@Journaling4Me I think what you guys are doing is washing your linen in public, and I believe it might be a good idea if you get your heads together and find a solution that will work for both of you. Good luck with that.
Verifier · 51-55, M
@helenS We will certainly do that appreciate it
Jrzgrl · 56-60, F
She deserves better. A leopard doesn’t change his spots.
Jrzgrl · 56-60, F
@Bleak nope. She lost me when she said he’s had his share of infidelities. He would have been gone at that point.
Verifier · 51-55, M
@Jrzgrl Unfortunately she's my wife 3timesalady
Jrzgrl · 56-60, F
@Verifier unfortunately for her?
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Verifier · 51-55, M
@OogieBoogie Well I don't care wat u saying or thinking
@Verifier i bet she does
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Verifier · 51-55, M
@SW-User Thank u so much

 
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