@Steph34 from someone who once said it better than I ;)
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
I believe you shouldn't compare to others b.c the way you look at yourself may not be an accurate reflection. However this may be controversial to say but if you have the ability, work out and have a vision to how you want to look that will make you feel the best. But also don't compare at all as that will set you back.
I've seen a person with a pretty severe skin condition on Instagram, where his skin is like paper and will look like a burn victim work out and lift weights. He finds a way.
There's also some viking dude who has a misshapen face due to birth or accident and is a body builder.
Sometimes people can't help their situation and can't do things like work out but if you are in a position to make yourself better, that's what I'd do regardless of what I looked like
@SatanBurger Excellent advise you offer! When we work out in some form or another, we should only ever do it to appease our own perception of self-image, not someone else's vision of ourselves.
I should also point out that many of us work out for other reasons unrelated to improving or changing our physical appearance and in fact, improving or changing one's physical appearance is the last thing we have in mind on our agenda when we do it.
if they are better looking and in better shape than me, then chances are, they worked damn hard to get that way, and for that I commend them. Good job !!!
@DearAmbellina2113 Honestly, I highly doubt that 😄 You’re probably just comparing yourself to everyone else while they’re busy thinking you’re the attractive one. And the fact you can laugh about it makes you even more appealing.
someone should tell candycane that mona has developmental issues and should lay off...i'd do it myself but she has me blocked....say hi to candy for me.
Easy… you remind yourself that filters, angles and gym lighting deserve their own awards category 😂 And besides, being funny, kind and emotionally stable is actually what is elite level attractive 🥴
I don't know. Lots of people are better looking and in better shape than me. Often smarter too. That's just life. Even a pack of coyotes or flock of birds would be like that.
@CookieCrumbs yup s w makes you that way when i was trolled called names,and stuck up for myself,i got thrown in s w for defending myself,no one ever told them it was mean not even admin,goodbye cookie👋
