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Jealous of another SW member

What can you do if you are jealous as they are not only better looking but in better shape me you! 🥴
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ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
Who cares? You do you. We all have our merits.
Steph34 · 36-40, F
@ChampagneOnIce thank you! that can be a tough lesson to learn.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@Steph34 It can be, but it’s necessary.
Steph34 · 36-40, F
@ChampagneOnIce thank you, i once was comfortable in it, now it needs to be taken in a bit!
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
I believe you shouldn't compare to others b.c the way you look at yourself may not be an accurate reflection. However this may be controversial to say but if you have the ability, work out and have a vision to how you want to look that will make you feel the best. But also don't compare at all as that will set you back.

I've seen a person with a pretty severe skin condition on Instagram, where his skin is like paper and will look like a burn victim work out and lift weights. He finds a way.

There's also some viking dude who has a misshapen face due to birth or accident and is a body builder.

Sometimes people can't help their situation and can't do things like work out but if you are in a position to make yourself better, that's what I'd do regardless of what I looked like
swirlie · 31-35, F
@SatanBurger
Excellent advise you offer! When we work out in some form or another, we should only ever do it to appease our own perception of self-image, not someone else's vision of ourselves.

I should also point out that many of us work out for other reasons unrelated to improving or changing our physical appearance and in fact, improving or changing one's physical appearance is the last thing we have in mind on our agenda when we do it.
AwesomusPrime · 36-40, M
Buy them VIP
Convivial · 26-30, F
There are always going to be people that look better... Are you going to spend you while life jealous of them?
Steph34 · 36-40, F
@Convivial No, i guess not as that is no way to live.
Convivial · 26-30, F
@Steph34 from someone who once said it better than I ;)

If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Steph34 · 36-40, F
@Convivial You are too kind, those are wise words.
JudyS · 51-55, F
I hope you are not jealous of her for having bigger boobs than you ...lol
Stop comparing. We can all have fans. 😌
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Literally every woman on SW looks better than I do 😅

I just accepted it and decided to have fun here anyway 🤷🏻‍♀
Steph34 · 36-40, F
@DearAmbellina2113 Bless you, love your attitude and your first sentence is simply not true, but thank you for saying that.
Justmemyselfandi1 · 41-45, M
@DearAmbellina2113 Honestly, I highly doubt that 😄
You’re probably just comparing yourself to everyone else while they’re busy thinking you’re the attractive one. And the fact you can laugh about it makes you even more appealing.
lissah · 36-40, F
But why would you be jealous of anyone here? Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder.
Steph34 · 36-40, F
@lissah I should not be but just not confident at the moment.
lissah · 36-40, F
@Steph34 im sorry. I used to be jealous a lot. So i know how you feel.
Steph34 · 36-40, F
@lissah thank you lissah for your kind words.
Heineken · 51-55, M
You could ask them how they do it
No one is 100% confident in themselves.
Compare only to past you.
No one is like you. Not a single person on this planet.
someone should tell candycane that mona has developmental issues and should lay off...i'd do it myself but she has me blocked....say hi to candy for me.
Steph34 · 36-40, F
@beermeplease I am sure she is a lovely lady and had no idea about her issues. No one on this site would make fun of her for that.
@Steph34 still say hi to candy. curious as to why she blocked me...but i have an idea
Justmemyselfandi1 · 41-45, M
Easy… you remind yourself that filters, angles and gym lighting deserve their own awards category 😂
And besides, being funny, kind and emotionally stable is actually what is elite level attractive 🥴
Steph34 · 36-40, F
@Justmemyselfandi1 No way, this was all natural but thanks for the confidence boost, sure could need it.
swirlie · 31-35, F
But what if the person you're jealous of is jealous of you for the same reason?
BillyMack · 46-50, M
Hard to tell if someone is in better shape. Unless they post body pics
Steph34 · 36-40, F
@BillyMack Trust me, they are! Wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy better shape and they just don't know it/
candycane · 36-40, F
are you talking about Mona?
Steph34 · 36-40, F
@candycane *sighs* how did you guess!
candycane · 36-40, F
@Steph34 cause i saw her nude in images and i got all choked up and couldnt look at such a body any more

 
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