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where i live, iam basically invisible to ladies of color.

I just am never seenby them. Which sucks because I only have an interest in and only attracted to them. I have no idea how to change this. I have been single since 2012 because of this. I will not settle , Except for what my heart desires and what I know makes me happy. Any Ideas?

The heart wants what the heart wants !
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
I try not to make blanket statements because I never know what might come my way. You have the right to your physical attractions, but what is the harm in dating all persons. No matter what skin color you can't characterize all people in being one way. Thats the beauty of being human, we are all unique. I focus more on the character than skin color. Go out and enjoy a diverse group of partners. You never know when those dates could lead you to meet your special person. She may be the best friend of the woman that it just didnt work out with and she may introduce the no chemistry but nice guy to others. She may be a waitress or a tour guide or any number of folks you encounter. Dont sit home and be lonely.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@LonelyEmpath Maybe not to that degree but naybe a hermit type or a loaner.
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@Fungirlmmm for 30 yrs i was never home. The more the merrier. Total extrovert. Lifes a trip.
SandWitch · 26-30, F
@LonelyEmpath
Your post made no inference whatsoever of you being inclusive of everyone, as evidenced from when you said "I only have an interest in and only attracted to them". Therefore you are contradicting your post when you say "I exclude no one".
I would never date someone who exclusively dates my race 🤮
@LonelyEmpath

"I only have an interest in and only attracted to them"
"I have been single since 2012 because of this. I will not settle"

Sounds pretty exclusive to me
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@TeamSkullGrunt
Thats a presumption. Did it say I would not. No it didnt. It said intrested in and attracted to. Nowhere did I say would not !
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@TeamSkullGrunt @TeamSkullGrunt

Im a pacifist so all i can say is yall are reaching big time . Just agree to disagree. Its all good friends. ✌
Maybe they don’t like being fetishized
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@MorbidCynic, see never was defensive just stating obvious. U have no idea who or what I am and you just insult me. Not kosher.
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@MorbidCynic
Please stop. I would appreciate it. Not what im here far, truce?
@LonelyEmpath No. I did not insult you. I stated the truth. Racial preferences are weird af. Interracial dating is fine but to put it on a pedestal and to act like anything less is settling is gross. It’s an objectification of women, you’re just like any man who views women as nothing more than their beauty. This is my observation. You have done nothing to make feel differently.
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
Is that a Black Lives Matter bracelet on your wrist?
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@SumKindaMunster
Yes it is.
robertsnj · 56-60, M
what country are you in?

Do you have colored friends? Are you able to connect with them on a social level culturally as opposed to only for sexual attraction?
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@robertsnj
Thanks my friend. You got what i was trying to convey. I really appreciate your feedback. Have a good one man.
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@robertsnj

By the way Im in New Orleans Louisiana, U. S. A.
robertsnj · 56-60, M
@LonelyEmpath wow that is interesting. What are you hobbies? I ask because when I was young and dating my hobbies that were either seen as gender netural or even femine (like writing) got a lot of femine attention when contrasted to my hobbies that were seen as more masculine. While you are thinking black women it somewhat how they are thinking and I would guess a high percentage of them would be looking for commonalities. You can hedge your bets by picking and adverstising a few hobbies that may be expressive and or whatever you feel you need to do to connect culturally (which It feels like you already doing? ) If I had a cat or a dog in a profile picture when I was way younger on a dating site that was always a hit. That is cool you are in New Orleans. Sounds like a cool place to live.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Don't ever gamble. The odds will be against you if you only want one set of numbers.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@LonelyEmpath I feel sorry for those that don't want to live.

Just the empath in me. 😞

Life is a gamble right down to the gamets in DNA.
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@DeWayfarer

So you are too? ✌️
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@LonelyEmpath Your like me no doubt. I sense it by your words. Just another breed of kat, as am I.✌️
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
Are you white?
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
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LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
Maybe not, is what it is.👍
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LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@Bang5luts
Zero expectations. No idea how you came up with that.👎
LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M
@Bang5luts 🙏

 
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