where i live, iam basically invisible to ladies of color.

I just am never seenby them. Which sucks because I only have an interest in and only attracted to them. I have no idea how to change this. I have been single since 2012 because of this. I will not settle , Except for what my heart desires and what I know makes me happy. Any Ideas?

The heart wants what the heart wants !

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666Maggotz · F

Maybe they don’t like being fetishized

LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M

@666Maggotz

Really.? Far from a fetish. Why didnt you just say jungle fever. Just as insulting to me and ladies.

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LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M

@666Maggotz
Never in my life has the words I want you come out of my mouth to a woman. EVER!

LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M

@666Maggotz

Man some just come out with bizarre stuff. Calling me weird is rude. Ya know?

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666Maggotz · F

@LonelyEmpath it tells me all I need to know about you that you’re in your 50’s and can’t even take criticism without getting defensive 😮 don’t post weird things online if you can’t handle the commentary, you snowflake.

LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M

@666Maggotz, see never was defensive just stating obvious. U have no idea who or what I am and you just insult me. Not kosher.

LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M

@666Maggotz
Please stop. I would appreciate it. Not what im here far, truce?

666Maggotz · F

@LonelyEmpath No. I did not insult you. I stated the truth. Racial preferences are weird af. Interracial dating is fine but to put it on a pedestal and to act like anything less is settling is gross. It’s an objectification of women, you’re just like any man who views women as nothing more than their beauty. This is my observation. You have done nothing to make feel differently.