where i live, iam basically invisible to ladies of color.

I just am never seenby them. Which sucks because I only have an interest in and only attracted to them. I have no idea how to change this. I have been single since 2012 because of this. I will not settle , Except for what my heart desires and what I know makes me happy. Any Ideas?

The heart wants what the heart wants !

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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

I try not to make blanket statements because I never know what might come my way. You have the right to your physical attractions, but what is the harm in dating all persons. No matter what skin color you can't characterize all people in being one way. Thats the beauty of being human, we are all unique. I focus more on the character than skin color. Go out and enjoy a diverse group of partners. You never know when those dates could lead you to meet your special person. She may be the best friend of the woman that it just didnt work out with and she may introduce the no chemistry but nice guy to others. She may be a waitress or a tour guide or any number of folks you encounter. Dont sit home and be lonely.

LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M

@Fungirlmmm
In essence thats what I Was saying. I exclude no one. But i do follow my heart.

LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M

@Fungirlmmm
You made me laugh. Did you sense I was Agoraphobic?

Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

@LonelyEmpath Maybe not to that degree but naybe a hermit type or a loaner.

LonelyEmpath · 51-55, M

@Fungirlmmm for 30 yrs i was never home. The more the merrier. Total extrovert. Lifes a trip.

SandWitch · 26-30, F

@LonelyEmpath
Your post made no inference whatsoever of you being inclusive of everyone, as evidenced from when you said "I only have an interest in and only attracted to them". Therefore you are contradicting your post when you say "I exclude no one".