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There is nothing inherently wrong with consensual incest😤

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I'm gonna get some hate from this, I know. But I just feel like stating this.
Whatever fault you can find in a consenting, incestuous relationship exists in any other relationship. I am [u]NOT [/u]talking about inbreeding, nor underage, nor forced relationships.

[i]The age gap. One side could be several decades older.[/i] Happens all the time outside the family. Cougars, gold diggers, suger daddies/mommies, etc.
[i]The power dynamic. Older syblings, parents, aunts/uncles, etc. One will naturally have more authority over the other.[/i] Lets be honest, relationships have always had a one sided power dynamic. Some more extreme than others, but they all do.
[i]It's just weird/gross.[/i] This is an opinion. What's weird/gross to one person is the norm to another is the kink of yet another still.
[i]It's a sin![/i] Then don't do it. Let others sin in peace. That being said, the bible has implications and undeniable instances of incest in several places. Not to mention all kinds of other twisted rules that label women as little more than living incubators.
[i]It's illegal.[/i] This true but several other kinds of relationships were illegal. Interracial and homosexuality primarily. Also, the degree of incest has different legalities depending in the local govt. In some state of America it's legal to marry cousins. In some countries it's perfectly legal to marry siblings if socially looked down upon.

I'm willing to argue other points if anyone can bring them up. And while I'm at it I will even admit I'm in an intimate relationship with a family member. I will not reveal whom on here so don't ask.

Bring on the hate. Worst you could do is harsh words I'll ignore. 😘

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laurieluvsit · 26-30, F

You are 100% correct.

Consensual incest is legal in many countries and has been acceptable in many cultures since the beginning of time. It is all throughout the bible. Who is harmed by it?

It was stopped by the Catholic Church in the dark ages as one more way of controlling the people while they molested their children, which they continue to do to this day.

I am a big proponent of consensual incest. It should be legal in every country.

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SW-User

@laurieluvsit I would agree if it is genuinely consensual and age-appropriate, same as for sex with anyone.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@SW-User Always true

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

@laurieluvsit
I LOVE the way you think🥰

SW-User

It could get complicated.

Nearest I got was letting my young brother watch me naked after I found he'd been peeping on me. I quite enjoyed getting him aroused but nothing else happened.

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SW-User

@SW-User nudity wasn’t normal in our family. Maybe that’s what added to the interest for both of us.

lifeistoshort · M

@SW-User Did he like doing that?

SW-User

@lifeistoshort Of course he liked it. No one forced him!

WonderGirl1

I never had sex with a family member, but we made out and masturbated together. It was quite nice. It was a learning experience.

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gdon39 · 41-45, M

@WonderGirl1 I have missed you WG

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@WonderGirl1 Very deep

Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

@WonderGirl1 was it a guy or a girl

WonderGirl1

It depends on the age of the people involved. From what I hear most incest occurs with a person under age.

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bhatjc · 46-50, M

@WonderGirl1 Still fun to watch

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@SW-User Good for you😊

Shytoshow · 56-60, M

@WonderGirl1 Really didnt realise that

BlueVeins · 22-25

I agree that incest isn't [i]inherently[/i] bad, but hand-waving away power dynamics as "well those exist outside of the workplace" is kinda shit. Like if a person is shagging their parent or something, that parent could probably ostracize them from the family if things don't go how they want, and that high stakes situation just doesn't exist in most other contexts. Hell, there's a danger that a parent could sorta manipulate them as a teenager to try and make their offspring wanna shag them and then officially start things as an adult, which is bad for obvious reasons.

If someone wants to bang their cousin, they use excessive contraception, and they understand the potential risks of doing that (namely, the possibility of creating a rift in the family), that's ultimately their prerogative. But also, since other family members are invariably gonna be affected by this, it seems reasonable that they should be able to ask the two to stop.

DavidW · 70-79, M

100% behind you on this. Like you, I'm in an intimate relationship with a family member. If it works and you're both happy it should be no-one's business but our own.

nativespirit · 61-69, M

@DavidW as long as it's consensual and you both enjoy it, don't worry about what others think

mainvane · 61-69, M

Hi Brandy. You have put much thought and study into this. I too have a similar relationship as you.

CheekyBadger · M

I suspect that part of it is that many people have an instinct that it is bad - this is probably genetic and is an innate part of being human. There are many things that we automatically know are bad - e.g. the smell of faeces. Whether this instinct is universal or not I don't know but incest is considered bad in most if not all societies which gives a clue. Then there is the definition of what is incestuous - this varies. In most places it is sibling and parental but others extend to cousins. In UK rural parts are rumoured to be full of cousin type relationships. How true this is I don't know.

I've never had an incestuous relationship but if my hot cousin was to proposition me for sex I wouldn't be turning her away 😜. I don't have any sisters so I don't have anything I can add there - although the fantasy of brother/sister sex is quite pleasing - I think this is probably in the context of other brother/sisters rather than me. Same for mother/son - I never had any thoughts like that for my mother - quite the opposite. 🤢.

Ultimately I would say live and let live - if it doesn't impact me (or say a child that might be born with deformities as a reult) then I don't have an issue.

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Raythedevil · 56-60, M

@DavidWI think she disagrees with Brandy, but I could be wrong.

DavidW · 70-79, M

@Raythedevil You maybe right!

cd4259 · 61-69, M

Good for you Brandy, have been there and am. I agree with you 100% adult consensual incestuous relationships should be the choice of the people involved. Obviously the consideration of pregnancy has to be addressed. But if it isn't an issue then it's nobody else's business.

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Miram · 31-35, F

If you really believed all of that, you would not be here seeking the validation.

You know it is wrong.

exexec · 61-69, C

I voted "no" although I have no idea what my wife and her twin brother did.

lovebeingasissy

I see nothing wrong with it. I started giving my Grandfather oral when I was 11 yo.💋

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Raythedevil · 56-60, M

@lovebeingasissy How long till you started enjoying it a lot?

lovebeingasissy

I enjoyed it from the first time.The sight ,fell of that big cock reality turned me on.Then licking it and having it cum in my mouth.My mouth was a little small to put much cock it but I learned as time went on.💋@Raythedevil

Dirtman1956 · 61-69, M

I agree. You already love your family. You can trust them. There’s nothing wrong with sharing something as wonderful feeling as sex as long as all involved agree. Sex is beautiful.

BohemianBoo · M

I think the only reason people see incest as wrong is because society had to consider it immoral to discourage people from inbreeding.

oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M

i to have had relations with family it was consensual ,,and no one got hurt ,,

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@oldercanuck1 Who was it with?

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Tython · 31-35, M

I agree. Not into any of my own family, but I'm in support of love between consenting adults.

Congrats on your relationship. Hope it gets better.

BrandyCream · 22-25, F

@Tython Wasn't expecting positive feedback so soon. Thanks.

SW-User

This is a bit late, only just found this thread.

My only real concern would be for the relationship. Family should be people you can always rely on even if you’re not especially close. When a sexual relationship ends you generally keep a distance from your ex but that could be a problem if it’s family.

Not saying it couldn’t work, just that there’s more risk of emotional complexities.

BrandyCream · 22-25, F

@SW-User I would disagree.
If the relationship(with non-family) was JUST sexual, ending it shouldn't carry any baggage. Like changing your favorite restuarant. You'll always have good memories, but it was a simple transaction of what you both wanted.
If it was more like Friends with Benefits(FwB) then ending sex could add a bit of strain, but shouldn't wreck anything long term. It started with friendship, you got close, you fucked, you stopped fucking, and you're still close as ever. The problem comesw when one side grows romantic feelings while the other does not. THAT'S the baggage.
Romantic relationships shouldn't rely on sex(though it is a big part) and there's literally millions of examples of healthy sexless relationships. But since sex and emotions are so intertwined, when one ends the other tends to follow. This is the most common series of events, but it's not an absolute.
Finally, the rare incestuous relationship(under the assumption everything and aeveryone is consentual). It's rare(not as much as people think) but it exists. Unfortunately, too many cases of incest are not truly consenting or loving. But those that are could be argued to have the strongest family bonds. You say family should be relied upon no matter what. With some exceptions, I agree. And sex could be something you rely on family for as a source. Sometimes, you just need sexual relise. Fingers and toys don't quite hit that spot, fucking strangers could go sideways oin the worst way, FwB is an option but comes with it's own risks, and to ignore your urges could cause greater problems in the near and distant future. This leaves family. Someone you can rely on, who will always care for you no matter what, someone with whom you can be your true self around at all times, and someone you can feel safe with.
Sorry for the rant, I've just thought a lot on the subject.

DavidW · 70-79, M

@BrandyCream I'm very much with you on this. Also, as you get older, opportunities diminish. Older people find it harder to start new relationships - or is it just me! It's so easy to get close to family members especially if you were perhaps a little but naughty together as kids.

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Jakefromnj · 41-45, M

Personally I think if it’s consensual it’s fine. I think any kind of consensual sex is OK and none of anybody else’s business.

WonderGirl1

Other than being raped by a family member my stepfather went down on me.

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Elessar · 26-30, M

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iamelijah · 26-30, M

Consent? I was already had been taken advantage when I was innocent.

LordShadowfire ·

@iamelijah That's not okay.

ninjavu · 51-55, M

Your points are good. I completely agree. Thanks.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

If they are legal, why should we really care.

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gdon39 · 41-45, M

Love it!

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

I agree... although I've never had a relationship like that what goes on between two consenting adults is nobody else's business

Firedragonco2 · M

Better the devil you know then to devil you don’t know

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@Firedragonco2 That is a good point

Theyitis · 36-40, M

I took a cultural anthropology class in college. There are very few universals in culture, there’s even one culture in rural China that has no concept of marriage. Now this comes with the corollary that different cultures have different notions about whom is and is not family, for example, some cultures be like, “Oh, your mother’s [i]sister[/i]? She’s not related to you. But your mother’s [i]brother’s[/i] son’s second cousin’s nephew? He’s family!” However, [i]all[/i] cultures agree that if someone [i]is[/i] in your family, then it is wrong for you to have sex with them. I don’t remember discussing why in depth that was, but I’m vaguely under the impression that it’s because sex might affect your relationship with a family member in ways that you wouldn’t like.

LordShadowfire ·

@Theyitis I read somewhere it was an evolutionary trait to ensure the genes remained strong.

Raythedevil · 56-60, M

I agree with you Brandy, good luck and have fun.

PhoenixPhail · M

Not only okay, but very well stated.

Neman1622 · 41-45, M

I like your profile and the way you think and apparently everything about you. Keep up your sexual ways!

Raythedevil · 56-60, M

@Neman1622 Welcome to the 'Club'.

Majorsite · 61-69, M

I've never done it, But personally I think it could even be a fulfilling and good thing for some !

CopperCicada · M

All of you who normalize incest...

....may Hecate cut you in half.

SW-User

[c=4C0073]what kind of cream is a brandy cream? 🤔[/c]

SW-User

[c=4C0073]why do my legit af questions always go unanswered lol .. so sad 😅[/c]

BrandyCream · 22-25, F

@SW-User Sorry! I like brandy and I like cream. The liqour and cum.

melbeacher · 56-60, M

Great post !

V00doo

Sure, dude.

pdockal · 56-60, M

What experience are you basing your opinion on

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Torsten · 36-40, M

foul

LordShadowfire ·

24 people have agreed. That is [c=BF0000]69[/c] percent of users who voted.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

Raythedevil · 56-60, M

@iamonfire696 Is that a no?

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@Raythedevil that’s a hell no

Raythedevil · 56-60, M

@iamonfire696 Thank you for the clarification.

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WonderGirl1

@OldMan70 It didn't bother me at all.

MissyChrissy · 18-21, F

@WonderGirl1 Wow, thats awesome, Ma'am 🤭

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Easygoing1234 · 46-50, M

@WonderGirl1 how close of family

pdockal · 56-60, M

@WonderGirl1 who's the family member

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bhatjc · 46-50, M

@SunScreenKing Who did you have that intimate relationship with. Who is your wife having fun with still?

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