YES. That was horrible. And the other person will never appreciate you sacrifising yourself for them they will push it further and try you see how far you let them

No, nor did I expect my partner to change theirs I'm not a needy, dependant type, willing to lose my identity for the sake of fulfilling someone else's needs.

Yes I have.. I used to be a good kid until the physical, mental and emotional abuse kicked in and I just lost all hope and became an addict to weed, alcohol and pills ,_.

I loved someone. That part of me is gone.

She destroyed everything about me!

Sadly yes. Im trying to get me back now 😊

I could write a book! She sucked the life out of me, almost had me convinced I was worthless and ugly. Got out just in time!

Nope. But different people bring out different aspects of it. And we do become like the people we spend most of our time with.

We all temporarily change and then when it feels unreal, unlike us we do kinda hate it

I'd say that I rather shed the irrelevant to gain the essential.

Never and I wouldn't want her to lose hers in me either.

No, I never have. As much and as deeply as I've loved I've never become that enmeshed.

Yep. 😔

This is interesting 🤔 I believe we do tend to pick up on others personality traits and tastes as we interact more with them.

Not necessarily, but if the relationship had been a little bit more longer I'm sure I would have. I came close to it.

Yes I lost myself completely in my marriage and gave up all hope

Yes, the first time I fell for someone

When I was young and dumb I could feel myself trying to be someone else someone that he wouldn't cheat on is what I told myself