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How to get dates as a 21 year old girl?

I am 21 years old girl never had a bf or asked out. I don't go to bars or clubs. No guys seem to really take interest in me and I don't think I am ugly and even some strangers even tell me I am attractive. I am 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs. I would really like to start dating but the problem is that I am having trouble finding dates and it seems like online dating might be my only choice. I am wondering how I can get dates and what I need to do to find love?
peternoc · 70-79, M Best Comment
My son was like that. He had a hard time finding someone special, someone he could love. I told him over and over that suddenly it will happen, totally unexpectedly. And then all of a sudden it happened, and they are married and have a son now.

It will happen to you, too. Be patient. No high school games. Have high standards. Be proud of who you are and act that way. Don't try to be like everyone else. Be like yourself. Good luck!

OtuLight · 26-30, M
😲you don't need to look far or do extraordinary things,😧just be yourself and truth to yourself. And i hope you choose someone Good. One other thing😩Don't be foolish. A lot of male's pretend to care at first and later on they'll try to take advantage of you so,😧watch out for those people.
FormerPadresfan · 26-30, M
If there's anyone you are crushing on, you ask them out. It's the 21st century, women are equal to men and in that way of who asks who should be equal.
TimSummers · M
Too many variables. Where do you live? Are there many available guys to date? And remember that you won't find love, love will find you.
your inbox should be about 784 by now. LOL although, you are gonna probably wanna screen these candidates very thoroughly.
Im 5'6 and weigh 125 as well oh and im almost 21 were like almost twins 😊
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DragonFruit · 61-69, M
Somehow, I don’t think I’d be very good at that….and I wasn’t very outgoing when I was young.
Sometimes just talking to people and finding common interests can be a start. Online dating might be an option, but it’s never your only option.
IcePrincess · 22-25, F
Ummm...I'm sorry...I hope you find someone...If you ever think you might wanna date a girl, I'm here :)
yunnie · 26-30, F
@IcePrincess: why do you say sorry? is this something to pitty about?
IcePrincess · 22-25, F
@yunnie: No...I'm sorry you haven't managed to find someone yet and that online dating seems to be your only option...Also sorry for not being able to help as I've never dated guys
SW-User
Advertise. I don't mean through media. I mean flirt. No offense, but guys are so dumb at reading a girl's interest.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@Peekaboo: Are you hitting on me?
Hamyamyak · 31-35, F
You're not missing out on anything special
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@Hamyamyak: I can practically hear the cringing by all your exes.
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yunnie · 26-30, F
@mad205039: no I don't work
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mathsman · 70-79, M
Join some clubs
Waxfoot · 56-60, M
just be bold

 
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