How to get dates as a 21 year old girl?

I am 21 years old girl never had a bf or asked out. I don't go to bars or clubs. No guys seem to really take interest in me and I don't think I am ugly and even some strangers even tell me I am attractive. I am 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs. I would really like to start dating but the problem is that I am having trouble finding dates and it seems like online dating might be my only choice. I am wondering how I can get dates and what I need to do to find love?

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peternoc · 70-79, M Best Comment

My son was like that. He had a hard time finding someone special, someone he could love. I told him over and over that suddenly it will happen, totally unexpectedly. And then all of a sudden it happened, and they are married and have a son now.

It will happen to you, too. Be patient. No high school games. Have high standards. Be proud of who you are and act that way. Don't try to be like everyone else. Be like yourself. Good luck!