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Should I be jealous if some girls I dont know greeted my bf a happy birthday?

firefall · 61-69, M
No

Actually, being jealous is always a bad idea.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
Nah ,if you can't trust him then what will being jealous do ,
I don't mind my woman having male friends ,its the ones who touch her and she does not put a stop to it that need to worry ,I'm not jealous ,I just protect whats mine ,
if she wants that kind of attention from others ,she don't need me ,,but just wishing her a happy birthday ,maybe you will destroy the relationship ,
to possessive ?but if you have reason not to trust him ,maybe he's not the right guy
JaseRuth · F
@rckt148: I do trust him its just all men I have dated was all jerk so im just being paranoid.
He just handsome that moat women wants him
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@JaseRuth: Well dear looks are only skin deep ,ugly is as ugly does .
I have been asked over and over how I end up with such fine women ,I was not like other guys ?
But my jealousy and controlling ways I am sure played a big part in why I ended up single ,7 yrs with me is a record ,but I have learned ,I have grown .
now I know what not to do ,now I just need to find one a jerk like I was has not ruined already ,,Good luck in your relationship ,wish you all the best
SailorMarz · F
Try to keep your cool honey bunches of fucking oats
if it's on fb dont worry about it. i always tell people there happy birthday and i dont even know them either or even talk to them.. the site just tells you it's their birthday so people send them greetings . that's all. nothing to worry about :)
JaseRuth · F
@ZeroG: u have a point:)
SW-User
no. probably not.
Dreammmer · 56-60, M
Jealousy is not a decision you make or refrain from making, it is a message from your heart and either healthy or unhealthy. This form seems to be unhealthy.
JaseRuth · F
@Dreammmer: very true!
Dreammmer · 56-60, M
@JaseRuth: I tend to think that you knew it all along. Are you worried or insecure about his love for you?
no. jealousy is is a bitter well of ugliness and poison. avoid it..

sigh it's hard not to be resentful sometimes tho idk ugh
JaseRuth · F
@ZeroG: Thanks! Got it!
ok :)
No. It's just his birthday. He's not like he was shirtless or bending over or something. When that other girl or girls wished him a happy birthday.
JaseRuth · F
@TheNintendoGamerNoMercyTickler: Thanks! Im just paranoid i know :(
SW-User
not unless it [i]wasn't[/i] his birthday
JaseRuth · F
@atalanta: well since we are far away so i got easily jealous :( and especially i dont know that girl
SW-User
@JaseRuth: try not to, it won't do any good. you can't control who he talks to all the, nor should you. these thoughts are only going to make things difficult for you both, and you don't want that. just try to be confident in what you have with him, and try not to focus on anything else
JaseRuth · F
@atalanta: Thanks!understood!
CalmUnderThePalm · 31-35, M
Are you jealous?
JaseRuth · F
@AuthoroftheFuture: yes coz i dont know that girl :(
CalmUnderThePalm · 31-35, M
@JaseRuth: Hmm.

 
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